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Xenophobia rather than racism, but you have basically just said what I am talking about, in order to shut ppl up about Brexit then your told your racist! I voted leave and I have my own reasons but it’s not because I don’t like ppl that aren’t British!
 
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The first part of your post - the Windsors are a great study in terms of PR.

Harry's wife, no matter who she were to be, would've been crucified by the press, just like Kate was. However, BP does let it happen and it is part of their age-old tactic of having the spare and their spouse be the fall couple for the heir & spouse, so they look better in the public's eye.

Nothing makes me laugh more than the adulation Kate gets and comments by people how Kate "would never do this", "behaved always impeccably" or "never put a foot wrong" "is elegant and classy 100% of the time". I wonder, did these people start following once Harry married or did they start the adulation (knowing full well that the above statements are not true) just to spite Meghan? Because if we were to compare Meg vs Kate 1st year of marriage and 2nd (to draw a more direct comparison, so ticking the stations from the start of entering the firm in direct contrast), Meg either outperformed Kate or did no worse than her.

The media followed suit and glorified Kate along with these either spiteful or unknowing people, but the thing is, as Diana said, they build you up to knock you down. The Cambridges felt this again, after years of positive on positive press (ie since Meg came along), when the Sussexes were gone from the media for a good while, they started to criticize the Cambridges again. And the Cambridges do deserve quite a bit of criticism.

Charles has been on quite a campaign since Diana died and the introduction of Camilla was nothing short of genius PR. There's a whole documentary on that out there. The biggest problem Charles really faces is his age. People seem to love nothing more than youth, so no matter Charles's good deeds (and there are many of them), he remains always overshadowed by the younger generation, so his image is oddly skewed, regardless of postive PR.

The workhorse bit, you're right. I think this ties in with the "Harry's frustration regarding projects" bit in Omid's biography of them. I do think they had many ideas, wanted to work on many things and were sidelined, because they cannot do more or overshadow the heir and the heir's heir (ie Charles & Will).

A further problem is that the Cambridges are absolutely lazy. Both of them, but Kate even more so. Harry's wife being a busy bee (again, no matter who she were to be) would've been a massive problem. Esp if that wife were to have also kids and still outperfom Kate in numbers and with a better delivery (ie better written and performed speeches, something Kate's only become better at in the past 2-3 years, is the timeline in which Kate became better a mere coincidence or a shock/wake up reaction to the de facto direct competition (ie Harry's wife)?).

In terms of PR it is really fascinating what the Windsors do and also how the press spins it all by their own. There's a documentary on the Windsors's PR tactics over the years and it's beyond amazing!
Albert was the first to have a major hand in the family's PR in a similar way as Phil did back in the 1950s/60s, he's the one who started with the whole "wholesome family just having a nice time bonding" thing and the one who effectively shaped Xmas as we know it today and the Windsors's own Xmas traditions, as well.

They need to update the monarchy fast, they are the most old-fashioned of all European monarchies and I realized that only once I started to learn a bit about them all. The UK has in theory more territory to cover than other monarchies (ie the Commonwealth), but in reality it's not like the Windsors are incessantly on tour and need a whole family to act as representatives.

They should have a monarch & heir only system like the others (e.g. Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Sweden, Norway & Denmark, basically like all EU monarchies at this point), wherein all spares are raised to join the workforce and all extended family (ie spares, cousins, aunts, uncles, the works) are only roped in based on necessity, eg to fill seats at state banquets, but even then seats could be filled in various ways.

Abolish the curtsey bs, too. Others have done it as well.

They must also quit the "heir vs spare" pitting type of PR, as it's doing them no favours at all. The spares are acting out (rightly so, who'd want to be the professional fall guy for their older "more important" sibling?? All their life!) and when the negative press of the spare is rotated through and nothing left to write about, the heir will be experiencing a renewed fall from grace anyway.
Most recently as we saw with the Cambs a few months ago. The Cambridges will have a lambasting through the press soon enough again, just wait for it.

The media is a fickle beast and can be quite problematic, aside from what I just wrote about. Eg in Denmark they never criticize their royal family, even though there is a lot that the people should know about and the heir and his wife need to be called out for (eg spending so much, they beg the government for more money, which goes up in air on luxury shopping sprees for Italian and French couture brands, which then end up sold by Mary in a 2nd hand shop! that's just one example. Another is the fact that Mary's Danish is still piss poor, nigh in non-existent, meanwhile Maxima was basically fluent in Dutch already when she gave the engagemet interview back in the day, as was Marie in Danish for her engagement interview...).

Monarchies are great (apparently) never ending soaps, really. Tune in to The Windsors, series 856, all brand spankin' new with the same age-old scandals befalling a whole new generation!
 
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Yes youre right. Everyone has a right to comment negatively on anyone. This is a gossip site. I'm just saying I find it OTT. But if you want her to go away, ignore her. Dont click.on articles about her, dont whip each other up into a frenzy over nothing and they will both crawl into obscurity.Re Andrew Its not been proven that he had sex with a trafficked girl but there is tons of evidence of his dodgy friendships to just with Epstein but Weinstein and any number of dodgy oligarchs etc. He damned himself out of his own mouth when it came to his arrogance and contempt for his mothers subjects and anyone not rich and / or aristocratic.
Also if you voted brexit because you didnt want eastern Europeans here that is racist. Polish people are an ethnic minority group.
 
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I never said that so don’t make out like I did! I said that’s what people say to shut people up about their wants and you have proved this.

Where the fuck am I whipping people
Into a frenzy?! What shit you talk
 
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Absolutely spot on. The focus should be on what Kate and William do because they will be imposed on us, as will George as our heads of state. It's not comparable. All the 'oh the duty is suchbhardcwork bollocks. They are absolutely desperate to stay where they are. It drips out of everything they do.

I never said that so don’t make out like I did! I said that’s what people say to shut people up about their wants and you have proved this.

Where the fuck am I whipping people
Into a frenzy?! What shit you talk
I didn't say you specifically. I meant the Meghan haters for example on the Meghan thread which is mad. I dont know if you're one of them because I dont go on there because it's too nuts.Apologies if I assumed you were one of them
 
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Can anyone recommend good books about the royal family (mostly the English one - old and current). I love history books and would love to learn more about the monarchy as I will officially become a British citizen next year!!
 
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Is there a rant thread for kate?
Could look myself but I'm lazy
They have their own thread here in the celeb section, just say what you want, I don't think separate rave/rant threads are necessary and both positive and negative has been said in their thread, just air your opinion, it'll be fine I'm sure
 
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Is there a rant thread for kate?
Could look myself but I'm lazy
How do we start one? I've only been active on this site for two weeks, despite signing up a while ago, so I'm still learning to navigate.

I wish people would get out of Kate's arse. I need to vent it
 
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I absolutely agree. About Andrew and about the over the top hatred.
Andrew might have not known what exactly was happening at best. Either he is completely clueless and therefore dangerously stupid or he choose not too look to closely which makes him an opportunistic coward. Both options are bad enough, but I cannot imagine that it has slipped his perception that something shady was going on. He was probably just looking the other way. It will be hard to prove the opposite. Either way, he has shown that he is not just an embarrassing busybody that doesn’t feel it’s too low to use and sell out his families status, but a despicable man with no moral compass. There is no comparison to H&M. That is a complete different league and I am utterly horrified that the Queen (once again) isn’t able to reign her family in. And I am even more horrified that the tabloids and public have not put more pressure on them to at least let him disappear forever on a country estate, without titles and never let him be seen again.
I find it very hard that there seems to be no or very little place for a more balanced approach to the younger royals. There is either complete adoration or hate. No in between.
 
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Can anyone recommend good books about the royal family (mostly the English one - old and current). I love history books and would love to learn more about the monarchy as I will officially become a British citizen next year!!
Hilary Mantel has some excellent books.
 
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So true. There was a time when Wiliam and Kate were single handily bringing down the monarchy. Being utterly lazy, only interested in nice engagements (sport or red carpets), rejecting their roles and obligations, the renovation drama about Amner Hall, the BIG grandparent war, practically withholding the children from Charles and the Queen, Wiliams hostile relationship with the media. They had to put up with a lot of criticising for not parading their children to the public. All the articles how the peerage dislikes and ridiculed Kate, Kate’s spending (especially on items that look exactly the same), Kate breaking protocol a thousand times, Kate the Flasher, Kate the gold digger, Wiliam the hypocrite in his animal rescue but sport hunting, Wiliam and part time flying, Kate using pregnancies to avoid work, Kate faking HG, Kate’s eating disorders, Kate the anti-feminist, Kate’s horrible posture, Kate’s bad speeches, when Meghan turned up it was all about jealous Kate- not busy enough, not stylish enough, not warm
enough, still hasn’t learned the ropes, would be in Meghan’s shadow..... and that’s just from the top of my head.
They were short of being called the Anti-Christ.
Sadly, people love to gossip and hate on people. Now, the wind has turned and everything they were ever criticised for is interpreted differently, forgiven or forgotten. That is why, I have a hard time following the Meghan has it so much worse narrative. Most articles read as taken from Kate coverage 5 years ago and they just swapped names. What did horrify me were the comment sections though. That’s were racism has raised its ugly head and I wish they would have exposed those people. Bring a private citizen should not protect you if you are comfortable to voice such opinions.
I disagree in terms of Harry and Meghan taking the fall for the Cambridge’s. Harry was in the media’s and the public’s good graces while his brother and his family couldn’t do anything right. It’s an ongoing cycle that has little to do with what is actually happening.
Interesting what you say about Denmark. I heard the Danish press and public were very critical especially about her spending, and language deficits. And wasn’t there a big scandal about some holiday home or yacht (or was this Netherlands or Spain?). So maybe our tabloids exaggerated the press action in Denmark.
I absolutely agree about your soap comparison. It’s all highly entertaining.

Belgium, the Netherlands, Spain, the Scandinavian countries, Liechtenstein.

with the exception of Liechtenstein and us, the royal families of those european countries are firmly in their boxes. It’s about time we followed suit.

Like to add Luxembourg, Andorra and the Vatikan (counts as absolute monarchy).
Also, while many might not have a ruling monarch as head of state (poster figure or actually powerful) many still have a big peerage that is still very exclusive and impenetrable. They might not be as rich anymore but they are utter snobs and their titles still come with a lot of privilege. Even in Germany, where there is no official peerage anymore (the title is now part of the name) they are still their own group, avoiding too much exposure (like the patsy Frederick von Anhalt. Adopting rich people to get paid for the name is sadly no one off). The big families still maintain their old structures with a family head and were marriages have to be allowed to stay in the book. They own land and business, and are highly educated. Sadly, governments will always find something to drown money instead of putting it where it should be (education, health, art, environment). A royal head of state is just one more hole. I think you could still distribute tax money more fair even if you still have to pay for them. I mean, our parliament had been riding their salaries to a point where it is ridiculous. And don’t let me think of their pensions. Two legislative periods and you are set up for live. And if you backed the right lobby, there is great and high salaried job as the CEO or on the board of directors waiting for you on top. A royal family fits right in. At least you have entertainment, some glitz at state visits and gorgeous castles and grounds.
 
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... I meant the Meghan haters for example on the Meghan thread which is mad. I dont know if you're one of them because I dont go on there because it's too nuts...
Whilst I disagree with a lot of what Harry and Meghan do ...actually EVERYTHING they do ... I also feel that the venom towards them is at psycho levels that's why I don't go on their thread or comment on any of their mag/newspaper articles. Similarly the Cambridge halo effect is just as bad. I can't comment on their articles because their worshippers will burn me at the stake.

Both sides are abnormally extreme. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone sometimes, and that none of this is real because it's just too absurd to be.
 
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I was on the H&M thread for a bit as I don’t have time for either of them Individually but find them strangely fascinating as a duo However I left as there was this undercurrent of racism in some posts. Too vague to pin down I just felt uncomfortable.
 
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He normally lives with his 'carriage driving partner' Penny someone on the Sandringham Estate. According to someone further up the thread, she will be the second person informed of his death when it happens ( if she isnt there at the time)
Apparently he has three "regular lady visitors" at Sandringham.

I remember reading something where an "inside source" said that there was a gay royal but it wasn't Edward. Certainly there's been rumours that Andrew is bi, and Fergie know all about where the various bodies are buried which is why she is still around. She and Andrew are apparently friends with benefits.
 
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Does HM have any lovers? There is seems to be a question mark over Andrews paternity!! It’s been banded about that he is porches son!! Lol !! Maybe that is the reason why he is her favourite child?
 
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I like Phillippa Gregory but both of those are related to The Tudors. Later than that I. Not sure. Horrible Histories is a kids programme but its fab for a lot of history.
Elizabeth Longford's Victoria RI has been out for decades but is still very good, especially as that period was very much a reaction to the decadent Georgian and Regency periods where the royals were actively loathed. Victoria and Albert created the modern royal family and ended up related to most of the European royal families thanks to the marriages of their children and grandchildren. And the book has an awesome family tree!
 
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On Kate and Will, They certainly didn’t have a running start to working royal life. But if I recall correctly the Queen was okay with that because she appreciated her early years with Phillip in Malta? So was happy for the eventual future King and his spouse to also experience a quieter life before dedicating themselves to their jobs? I do think they’ve improved over the years. By sharing the occasional picture they’re also able to control the narrative around their children and give them some semblance of normality.
 
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I wish mine and my husband's bosses felt the same way
 
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