Mummyto3girlsandaboy
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Millie will have 3 kids under 3, that’s a huge responsibility for anyone let alone someone who can barely take care of herself. Little heads up Millie if you’re reading here - when this “last” baby is a little older, possibly when Ophelia is at school, get yourself back to college and retrain. There is funding for childcare and paying for any equipment you might need (ie if you’re training in hair or beauty).
That way you’ll be independent of anyone that might otherwise take advantage of your dependency.
I know DV and abusive relationships were discussed at length in the previous thread so I’m not going back over old ground, but those type of relationships aren’t just between partners, they can also be between siblings and parent/child relationships. Sue offers her kids material things in return for their full compliance in their make believe world. This in itself is control and if Millie is left to feel that she has no financial independence she will go to whoever is offering to “support” her.
Bit deep for a Sunday morning I know but please Millie do it for yourself
That way you’ll be independent of anyone that might otherwise take advantage of your dependency.
I know DV and abusive relationships were discussed at length in the previous thread so I’m not going back over old ground, but those type of relationships aren’t just between partners, they can also be between siblings and parent/child relationships. Sue offers her kids material things in return for their full compliance in their make believe world. This in itself is control and if Millie is left to feel that she has no financial independence she will go to whoever is offering to “support” her.
Bit deep for a Sunday morning I know but please Millie do it for yourself