But why wouldnt it be down to morals and self respect? The man absolutely is the *cheat* and responsible for breaking that relationship. But why would you bleep off another woman/person by knowingly helping their partner to cheat? You dont owe any loyalty, but its so far from decent to do to someone, ya know?
If someone wants to cheat, they absolutely will. But why be the person they use for that? If you only want sex, why get it from someone you know has a partner/family etc? I just find it really hard to understand the shut down of empathy/consideration? The two guys who pretended to be single with me, theyre scummy cheats and I feel sorry for their (seemingly) oblivious partners. The woman who entertained my OH? She got a bollocking from me, because she had met me and spoke to me, I often asked after her and we went to a party together.. it felt really calculated and beyond crappy. But the OH? All hell broke lose for him!
If someone wants to cheat, they absolutely will. But why be the person they use for that? If you only want sex, why get it from someone you know has a partner/family etc? I just find it really hard to understand the shut down of empathy/consideration? The two guys who pretended to be single with me, theyre scummy cheats and I feel sorry for their (seemingly) oblivious partners. The woman who entertained my OH? She got a bollocking from me, because she had met me and spoke to me, I often asked after her and we went to a party together.. it felt really calculated and beyond crappy. But the OH? All hell broke lose for him!