I was in love with an older married man who I worked with for almost 4 years. I didn't tell him, but he guessed around 10 months in. He asked me about it and I told him the truth. We did talk about how I felt about him, but that's all that
ever happened, even though we were alone in his office lots of times. I didn't need him to tell me that we wouldn't be a thing. We got to a point where we could joke about it "we'll name our child Cosmo".
I had all the
sexual fantasies in my head.
I stopped working with him eventually. I know I do still love him and I'm not over it yet, but I'm honestly grateful that he could hold that boundary and it was never crossed.
He does have a public insta which I still secretly look up frequently, but no messaging though.