I don’t disagree with all surrogacy, I know siblings and mothers who would do it for love if their family member was desperate for a child.
I do not agree with children being bought however.
Do you not have any opinions or counter arguments as to why you agree with it then? Since I’ve taken quite a bit of time to answer your question, for you to now dismiss the subject (and my opinion) and demand we ‘move on’ seems pretty off.
I didn’t mean to seem dismissive of your opinions, it’s just based on your reply it’s seemed like you were almost annoyed that I didn’t see surrogacy as being so morally wrong.
Personally I have no issues with surrogacy so long as everything is above aboard and it’s done through a proper agency.
With regards to Kim, she said she specifically chose the ladies who carried her children because a) they already had kids of their own and b) they had already been surrogates for other people.
I really also disagree with Kim used them and then discarded off then when they had done their ‘job’ because Kim has said that she regularly keeps in touch with them and sends them gifts on birthdays etc...
I had never thought of surrogacy in this way but it is food for thought, I think when you add money into the equation outside of normal medical expenses etc it does change things. Personally my understanding of surrogacy was that it was a lovely thing to do for someone but I have researched the effects of adoption on the child, in particular babies and there is something referred to as the primal wound. I had never explored this theory in regards to a surrogate child but I suppose it would be relevant. Kim K has said she chose surrogacy because she was high risk, she certainly had issues with her first pregnancy but I'm still unsure whether I believe her. She was very vocal about hating pregnancy and the changes her body went through.
This is why I don’t believe Kim chose surrogacy for vanity reasons because as much issues as she had with her first pregnancy, as much as hated being pregnant, she was fat shammed etc...she still went on carry Saint.