I am told that it’s a bad thing to fat shame…..not quite sure what that means but if being lazy and stuffing your face full of crap or being a greedy bastard means you look like a beached whale then you should be ashamed. Sarah Ingham you are nothing more than a lazy fat slob. Get off your arse, go to the gym, swimming baths, start walking everyday with your baby, whatever it takes to start setting a good example for your children. Who knows, if you get back to a normal, healthy bmi, your husband may be less interested in skating around seedy looking suburbs looking like he is scouring the streets for offal to feed on. Unless of course you would prefer him to be away from the family home! But hell woman have some respect for your health and well being. You fuss over your bloody stupid eyebrows but your heart, kidneys, liver and pancreas are being destroyed (as are your children's) with your high fat, high sugar processed tit diet. You have brought 4 children into the world, you lost your own Mother way to soon through unhealthy habits. Don’t do that to your own. On a plus side, if you start encouraging a healthier attitude you may well creep up the list of influencers even more, which clearly is far more important to you that the health and well being of yourself and your children.