“No matter what we do, they are always going to criticise us”
*this is going to be a very long one and I know they’d probably won’t read all of this but I need to vent about the situation*
Chris...Sarah...maybe....just maybe....you need to stop making awful decisions, then?
no matter how “minor” the decision is...it’ll still be a bad one if it has no good intention whatsoever. You make these choices, that most people wouldn’t see positive or making any good-willed impact, people see this, on tattle, on twitter, on Instagram, on YouTube and that goes for any other social media platform, they see what ill-intentions or negative voicings it has, they voice their upset and offence, you see this and your first decision to try and reverse the negative impact is...making even more negativity?
it’s obvious that you and Chris like to challenge people with good intentions to spread awareness of what your family has done and make more decisions that will stir the pot of mayhem immediately. as tattlers, we have tried to voice our concerns to you two as parents and as influencers to focus on your own issues, including Chris admitting what he did was absolutely ghastly and dangerous, we have also voiced our concerns about the children because the future needs to look better for all of them including your kids as what your teaching them and how to be a part of a good society for all is horrible. Not everyone is going to be nice, not everyone is going to pleasant and treat you with the same kind of respect that you treated them but we can’t carry on with the motive, we all have a part in making a better future, so do you and Chris. Your eldest is probably voicing all of these toxic mannerisms that you gave her because she either feels outcasted, scared or she feels as if she doesn’t have any good role model or “teacher” in her life and feels as if she’s given up on being a better version of herself and the future, hence why she’s just gone with the flow and just acted out as what she sees as normal. Obviously, I personally don’t know what goes through their minds but that’s not the point. I will never stop barking about mental health awareness in my personal life and also to you and Chris regarding the children, it has never been so much more important than now to help one another and mental health is a big fracture of that. There’s huge stigma in the mental health community, always has been (if I get a warning for this as a it’s not related to the thread, then I’ll be absolutely fine with that) but you two have somehow involved yourself with thousands of others throwing the stigma in.
another thing, Sarah, you can’t keep doing this to the hardworking people who design these creations. Yes, some of them might be from free websites where it’s free to use for all different kind of projects but it still isn’t right. If I was a designer and I saw someone in a current light taking my designs without my permission or even letting me know in the first place, I’d be disheartened. No amount of “blocking” or “rants” is going to put you in a better place, same goes for Chris.
YouTube is slowly becoming very controversial in the media, you don’t see it because the concern isn’t being brought up enough, never has and never will. As content creators, you NEED to understand that if YouTube, has squished a few law rules or human rights rules, then people of power, will have all the right to either punish the streaming site in some form of matter or shut it down. COPPA isn’t working, I already thought it was bad idea to begin with as I know the intentions of people thinking it would help stomp out horrific issues on the platform were from the heart but nothing has been done, I remember a friend telling me they saw a graphic adult video marked as “kids entertainment” on YouTube. It’s failed the sort of audience that people were voicing concern with. You two MUST think about what the future lies ahead with YouTube and if the end of the steaming platform is certainly scheduled. Not saying there won’t be any other steaming sites that pay their content creators as well popping up in the future but that isn’t the point. social media is getting more and more dangerous as the years go by, sometimes it can be beautiful for people to voice their concerns and give some positivity but the dangers overlook that. Chris, for what you have done and many other youtubers who overstepped that trust, you lot are very lucky to still be on the platform. It’s a heartbreaking matter that the platform doesn’t focus on what’s destroying it but what’s making it look “good”. If it was up to the actual law itself, you wouldn’t be on the platform still by now. Neither would the other youtubers who have done bad things. However, the amount of damage you have caused, to your children, to your wife who’s now following and causing the damage too, the girls who had innocent intentions and truly hurt, all of us that you somehow think we’re “haters” when in serious matters, we’re laughing at you and Sarah because you two aren’t doing nothing to address what you did and still clearly aren’t bothered by addressing it and causing other negative decisions, the damage is...mostly unforgivable. Clearly unforgivable. Am I and every other tattler who’s voicing concern in this thread, getting tired of trying to wake you two up and stop this before something completely horrific happens? No. Of course I don’t talk for everyone in this thread but at some point has a fellow tattler said “why are we even bothering anymore? They’re not going to change!”. No. Which means, we’re not all tired, not yet and I don’t think we’ll ever be.
as parents, influencers, content creators and beings, the only thing people will notice nowadays is how you treat your loved ones, eg. Your children and their mental well-beings, innocent people who are voicing their concern, etc. I guess you can say, you two have given up and very sadly, the children have given up and have been influenced in any other way to your behaviour patterns. You’re not horrific parents, no, as there are other parents out there who are doing way worse but let’s not agree that what you two are doing is “minor”. This is the kids’ futures on a piece of string here. I will keep shouting at you two through this platform, to do better or change your lives or clean up your acts and admit what you did was wrong, so will other fellow tattlers, just open your eyes more and hear more of the concerns instead of becoming catty towards these comments and thinking everyone has a torch and pitchfork at your door. That isn’t the point. That isn’t even going to be the point. I’m sorry if my post will upset any tattlers, it wasn’t my intentions to cause upset. Just trying my hardest to bring awareness. If you have all read this, then thank you so much, I don’t blame anyone who couldn’t or didn’t read it as it is a lot. Hope you’re all safe and well