How sad is that they’ve been taught that sneaking a piece of fruit is seen as the worst thing ever to do
poor kids are made to feel guilty for being hungry. I think it says a lot of when a child sneaks food that isn’t sweets because a child sneaking sweets before their dinner is a typical normal thing most kids try to do at least once and that’s what you would expect a child to be sneaking but when a child is trying to sneak any type of food they can get their hands on and hide it that shows a child is genuinely hungry. Ella and Tim are so controlling with food and these kids are being psychologically abused and it confuses and disgusts me how people in the comments on videos and on insta are so blind to the abuse these kids are going through when it’s right in front of all our eyes.
Ella and Tim have people fooled and it’s scary because this allows them to continue to get away with how badly they treat their kids. Ella and Tim have a way of turning the kids against each other they’ll all gang up on and give one sibling a hard time making that sibling feel attacked and embarrassed and you can see Tim and the other siblings enjoy doing that it’s messed up. Of course I’m not blaming any of the kids for that because it’s learned behaviour and manipulation that makes these kids think it’s ok to give each other a hard time.
The way they compete with each other to be the golden child , compete for attention , want to win everything just so they can brag and look smug that their sibling/siblings didn’t win and want to always out do each other it’s all going to cause a lot of problems in their sibling relationships with each other which is very sad. You’re right the grimwade gang fans who stalk this thread should be ashamed of themselves because they’re not calling out the abuse, they’re supporting it! and like you said they’ve been shown all the abuse and how awful Ella and Tim but they refuse to listen. They’re weirdly obsessed with Ella , Tim and the kids in the comments it’s very scary how people can be telling kids they don’t know that they love them and asking to see more of them. Also adults following these kids social media pages and leaving comments is disgusting. Stranger danger seems to be going out the window which scares me.
When Hezes TikTok came up on my fyp I felt uncomfortable going onto his page but my intentions are not bad I was just nosy to see how they’re exploiting the poor kid on TikTok and all I could think was no decent parent would exploit their children and wouldn’t be comfortable with their child under 18 years old having public social media were anybody can watch and contact their child.