You are me, my oh stopped me twice, that was many years ago, the thought still lingers but meds have helped.
I also have no friends, if my oh wasn't here, I could fall, or even die in my house and no one would know, it's something I've had to live with as being an Introvert and practically a recluse, , being let down by so called friends over the years, would find it difficult to trust again, thank god for my dogs!!!!
This thread is a safe place to write things down, hugs to all who live with this demon, it's tit!!!
I'm so sorry to hear that
@Maid22 but I can definitely relate to that feeling of being alone(even though in my case I'm not) and that no one cares and yes even suicidal occasionally ?
I tried it once during Lockdown (just before I joined Tattle life) and my husband had to physically restrain me I was hysterical afterwards and it took me ages to calm down.
Anyway he made me promise never to try it again and I have kept that but I was resentful for a long time! It still haunts me and when I have had thoughts about doing it again(which isn't often) it gives me a kind of relief..(the thought but not the action i.wouldnt actually try again) just because I don't want to traumatise my children my daughter was only little at the time.So I think it was definitely linked to her being ill which I blamed myself for and PND)..but then again I tried it as a teenager after being bullied so I do have previous form so maybe I'm just an unstable person with bad coping mechanisms and lockdown was a regression into the past if that makes sense and things that I though I had forgotten (but obviously hadn't) came back,)
It's difficult to give voice to things when you feel as if no one is interested? My parents are estranged from each other (divorced) and from me now as I don't talk to either of them and my husband is usually just fed up with me? (And vica versa)
So I really understand the temptation to just not to want to be here it's exhausting and I too have no friends....which is a relief sometimes because like you in my day to day life I'm also an introvert and reclusive and both of my parents were also narcissists so I don't want to put on a mask or false face in front of people I just want to face myself honestly but I am scared about how I come across to others and rejection hurts?
Then something will trigger me and I'll get another pang of loneliness and feel like I have failed at this socialisation lark! I too do not find it easy?
I also have massive trust issues it's so hard when people let you down or worse still if you open yourself up and get rejected or not supported it's easy to form the impression from this that no one cares but it's not true
You have a voice and a presence on here and you're always thoughtful and generous and with a dry wit plus your love for your animals always shines through...
This is a great space for just being yourself without the need to pretend to be happy and to just be honest I've got so much love and admiration for the people who post on here (you included) I really have found it cathartic and I hope it's been helpful to you as well?
I am glad this thread exists and I am glad that you exist and anyone is here any time for any of us if we need it. sometimes it's good to offer support and understanding to others but we also need it ourselves as well?
I've offered and given a lot to others over the years and mainly it's seemed as if I didn't get it back when I needed it (huge understatement)
That happens all too frequently unfortunately?
Maybe it happened to you as well?
Reading on here though and being a part of some lovely threads has restored my faith in people a bit (not there yet but still a glimmer of hope,?)
People are lovely and helpful and kind sometimes at least and reminding myself of that fact makes me feel better and I hope it gives you reassurance too if you should ever need it.
Thanks for your previous support (on a different thread) I do appreciate it and take care of yourself and those dogs you would be missed if something bad ever happened (god forbid) so I hope you take care of yourself and like someone said to me on another thread when I was really low your not alone even if it feels like it.
So take care and much love
you deserve it!