Love this, especially about it being true in different ways for us all.
Good on youTook one for the team and had a shower.
Don’t feel any better! Just feel more knackered.
Save yourselves the energy and don’t bother xx
Edit to add I didn’t even contemplate washing my hair. It just got shoved up high out the way.
Is work the only factor, or are there other things adding to it?What to do for burnout from work?
Thank you. It was someone else. It is fine@Into_the_tunnel i absolutely agree, I find the posts about ‘why don’t you just xyz’ infuriating and I have to ignore them. It’s not as simple as changing jobs when you can’t even manage to get out of bed.
Your comments about washing - I’m not sure whether you had an internal argument with yourself, or if it was someone else… I’m so sorry if it was someone else. I’m sure they thought they were helping, but that’s not the way to support, is it
We’re always here if you need us, even if you’re avoiding SM xx
Yes, it’s so hard to explain to someone. I would never have understood it, before I was in it xxThank you. It was someone else. It is fineI think, looking back on it, after 4 or 5 days of not leaving the house/bed/sofa each time I needed to be clean. I never felt better though. Ever. Why would I care about something being clean when I didn’t care about that thing in the first place? Which, if you haven’t been there, can’t be understood.
Xxx
I really felt for you when you posted that last night, but you definitely made a lot of us feel less alone, and yourself.Things like changing job / going travelling / going on a spontaneous weekend away alone are so far beyond what I’m capable of, that I can’t even process the thoughts needed to begin to think about them!
To get into the shower this morning was such a long process, I was exhausted before I’d even turned on the water.
4 years ago if you’d told me that, I’d have had no way to understand that difficulty.
Edit to add I think that’s why I posted here in the first place yesterday about not knowing when I’d last showered etc. - because I desperately needed someone to tell me I wasn’t alone, and I knew that I wasn’t the only one to be feeling that. I hoped it might make someone else feel less alone, too
Can you come and do mine??I washed my hair yay! I still don’t think it should be easy for anyone else though.
Haha, I forgot to switch the hot water on, and I’ve still not dried itCan you come and do mine??
Seriously - well done xx
Ah it’ll dry by itself while you watch tv!Haha, I forgot to switch the hot water on, and I’ve still not dried it
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