Exactly, most of us love our Father’s, she is no anomaly. If they have passed we are aware enough to know and accept they were both good and bad. Her idealistic and almost deification of him is unhealthy. Better she keep her memories of him private and move forward and find herself a real partner she can share her life with. She is becoming a parody and most men would get bored and annoyed at all this pretend life she immerses herself in, let alone the shrine she is building for daddy all over that chateau. The clock is loudly ticking for her, grow up SJ before it’s too late.It's more about taking him down from the pedestal than his soft porn art.
"My daddy was a Saint!"... oh, bollocks