Totally agree with your analysis. Sheās a psychic vampire who doesnāt discard her victims until theyāre just an empty husk with no use left.
Ns actually do eventually drain everybody in their environment of their life blood, think, emotional vampires via a slow drip of manipulative abuse and OTT sob stories, especially in connection with their childhoods, which has kept the victims bonded (sometimes for years), to the Ns via their human nature and empathy.
And as you say
@MRShavershamsdress, once that happens, the host is eventually used up (or goes mad attempting to understand the resultant cognitive dissonance), and is obviously of no further of use to the N, AKA here, Stephanie Jarvis.
So many examples of this being the case at the hands of Stephanie Jarvis, i.e. friends, Selmar, Marie, Hanni, Sabrina, the original 2 guardians Ivo and his partner, the 2 Ians - the list is endless as there must be so many others that we don't even know about that SJ has emotionally scammed, plus of course, let's not forget, her XH, ex-boyfriends etc who did finally get away, AND, more importantly, thankfully stayed away for their own sanity!
Apart from her life long "N enablers" - friends, Aunt/Uncle, Nick, Potts, Oliver, Scotsman and, most recently added to the list, now unfortunately, Amaury, etc, etc.
Dan will defo be her next N victim. Through his lack of personal N awareness/maturity, he is now reaching the end of his usefulness to SJ basically because what exactly is he doing at the Shitoo, apart from the pergola and that is nearly finished. Then what? SJ's lovebombing of Dan is well and truly over, no matter what the current sexual connection may be between them. TBH, I am not interested one way or the other.
And, how the hell is he paying for his food, board and lodging at the HMN these days due to the lack of work he does there? As far as I can see, he doesn't appear to film/edit any of her vlogs, no drone footage, gardening, cooking, provide waiter service or anything else does he? Happy to be corrected, of course!
As we all know, SJ is 100% not truly altruistic or charitable, no matter what she says AND, actions always speak louder than words! She is an out and out N, so fame and money are her holy grail.
My sister, who was a Psy nurse, told me in no uncertain terms that the N is my life "had stolen all my sparkle and joie de vie" after I eventually walked away from him.
I wonder why this XN in my life even felt that he had to attend my sister's funeral because he "wanted to support me" - NOT, as we weren't then even together! That he had never truly taken to her/liked her - think - because he knew that she had 100% seen through his mask right from the outset! But, he just had to have the last word didn't he when of course my sister had no opportunity of responding with her truth. Just so unnecessary, uncaring and disrespectful.
Thankfully, by that stage, I just thought you absolute insensitive wank** as I had already seen the light where he was concerned, thank God!
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