Totally. Add "everything happens for a reason" in response to something awful. No, there's no reason yet another sad or tragic thing happened to this person as opposed to all these people who haven't had a single bad thing happen in their life. It's totally and utterly random and unfair and it doesn't make you a better or even.stronger person to have suffered. I REALLY hate "everything happens for a reason." That's probably the worst piece of advice you could give anyone.Life. Isn’t. Fair.
Sometimes, quotes are bullllllllshiiiiit
You’re gonna be told “be thankful for your struggles, you learn from them” bla bla bla
“Sometimes you need to break in order to grow” ALL that type of crap.
But it’s not always true. Sometimes when you face crap in life you don’t “learn” from it or “grow” from it.
You just deal with it and make the best of a really shit situation.
Things don’t always work out. In life we’re not guaranteed it will. Not everyone gets a happy ending.
Once you accept that you can get on with the hand you’ve been dealt.
Stay tuned for more positive advice and messages. I’m hoping one day Alfie Deyes plasters my comments on his gym wall.
I totally get that, as in if somebody loses a child there is no good whatsoever that can come from that! However, in my life, I have had hardships, lots of them but it really does make me appreciate where I am now and what I have. It makes me a better mum, person, wife, friend, worker etc. As I've experienced a nasty mum, fake friends, shit jobs, shit boyfriends. Obviously there is a scale and like I said somethings are just awful to experience and no good can come of it but I think some bad things that happen to us we should try and seek out the positives from it. To attract better people and situations and be thankful of these thingsTotally. Add "everything happens for a reason" in response to something awful. No, there's no reason yet another sad or tragic thing happened to this person as opposed to all these people who haven't had a single bad thing happen in their life. It's totally and utterly random and unfair and it doesn't make you a better or even.stronger person to have suffered. I REALLY hate "everything happens for a reason." That's probably the worst piece of advice you could give anyone.
When somebody told me "everything happens for a reason" three days after my dad died, I stopped speaking to them.Totally. Add "everything happens for a reason" in response to something awful. No, there's no reason yet another sad or tragic thing happened to this person as opposed to all these people who haven't had a single bad thing happen in their life. It's totally and utterly random and unfair and it doesn't make you a better or even.stronger person to have suffered. I REALLY hate "everything happens for a reason." That's probably the worst piece of advice you could give anyone.
Omg! How can anybody ever say that at that time!! What good can come from that. What a clumsy and hurtful thing to say. I hope you're ok xxWhen somebody told me "everything happens for a reason" three days after my dad died, I stopped speaking to them.
My mum died on xmas eve someone said to me she’s better of now she had no life being ill,I could have killed themWhen somebody told me "everything happens for a reason" three days after my dad died, I stopped speaking to them.
Got told that multiple times after my son died. Hate it so much. And “he’s in a better place now.”Totally. Add "everything happens for a reason" in response to something awful. No, there's no reason yet another sad or tragic thing happened to this person as opposed to all these people who haven't had a single bad thing happen in their life. It's totally and utterly random and unfair and it doesn't make you a better or even.stronger person to have suffered. I REALLY hate "everything happens for a reason." That's probably the worst piece of advice you could give anyone.
Ah man that makes me angry to even hear people could say that meaningless crap after a thing that awful. I know my words aren't much better but I'm really sorry to hear you experienced something so tragic - we may be strangers on the Internet but it's always going to be sad to hear things like that so I hope you know it's as genuine as I can be in the circumstances. But I really think telling you it happened for a reason is out of order. I would be so angry if someone told me that about people close to me who have died young. The audacity of it.Got told that multiple times after my son died. Hate it so much. And “he’s in a better place now.”
Fuckkk that shit.
thank you so much.Ah man that makes me angry to even hear people could say that meaningless crap after a thing that awful. I know my words aren't much better but I'm really sorry to hear you experienced something so tragic - we may be strangers on the Internet but it's always going to be sad to hear things like that so I hope you know it's as genuine as I can be in the circumstances. But I really think telling you it happened for a reason is out of order. I would be so angry if someone told me that about people close to me who have died young. The audacity of it.
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