The Archie Battersbee case #17

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But children who are being harmed at home can act up in school as a cry for help. Most of the time teachers don't recognise the behaviour as a cry for help and just see a "badly behaved" child instead. So the children who would benefit from counselling or extra support in schools are excluded or suspended instead, and where do they go? Back home where all their problems are. He had ADHD and what looks like a terrible family, he wasn't going to be a child who always controlled his emotions and behaviour and coped all the time, especially not in an education system that doesn't see mental health as a priority. The first time Archie was excluded from school, the school said he was hiding under tables and attempting to run away, both are behaviours that children who have trauma show, they also mentioned that they thought Archie had attachment disorder which most of the time is caused by neglect and abuse in early childhood. Hollie mentioned once about Archie having attachment disorder and she acted like it is nothing, she would never admit how it can be caused because she would have to admit to her failures.
I always think about the other children in the class and the impact Archie's behaviour would have had on them. Children aren't excluded for nothing.

Maybe Hollie thinks that Attachment Disorder means that she was such an excellent mother that Archie couldn't bear to be apart from her?
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She’s odd AF
Shows more attention to him now he’s dead

that headstone is hideous
The guilt must be eating away at her deep down..despite all the desperate need for praise and attention.
 
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I hate these parents who think they can do some kind of shallow 'lesson learned' discipline and think it's going to help their kids turn out well. The litter picking is just horrible. Firstly it teaches the idea that any kind of service workers simply dossed around in school and are stupid and deserve horrible jobs - which is a disgusting thing to think. And it doesn't address the root cause of why he is acting up in class. That he ended up getting excluded showed that her ideas of discipline didn't work, only made things worse, and certainly didn't fix the actual problem.

I do think the social care system in the UK fails so many. The right help is rarely offered, and even if it is, you have to really fight for it. Archie didn't have an advocate. Not in Hollie, and not in his overstretched and underfunded school (where individual help for pupils is just an impossible workload for most teachers).
 
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