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I personally don’t think he would feel like he “got to” you if you blocked him. How I see it. That’s how you take back your power.

I don’t want to be rude when I say this, but. He didn’t want to message you last time he unblocked you. You started the chat and he blocked you because he got a reaction from you. He’s more than likely unblocked you again hoping for the same. Probably wont message you back. But he will be sat there smug thinking “Haha, see I got her where I want her. I block her. Unblock her and she comes running”. You blocking him not only sends the message to him your not interested in his pathetic games. It also stops him from blocking and unblocking you in the future
 
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Blonde angel you’re putting wayyy too much time into this non issue 🫣 absolutely no reason to message him, archive that chat and put the phone down!!!
 
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Blonde angel you’re putting wayyy too much time into this non issue 🫣 absolutely no reason to message him, archive that chat and put the phone down!!!
That’s what I’ve done, I’m hardly on WhatsApp anyway it’s mainly to contact work colleagues or my sister 🤷🏼‍♀️ Most of the time I go days not going on there

I personally don’t think he would feel like he “got to” you if you blocked him. How I see it. That’s how you take back your power.

I don’t want to be rude when I say this, but. He didn’t want to message you last time he unblocked you. You started the chat and he blocked you because he got a reaction from you. He’s more than likely unblocked you again hoping for the same. Probably wont message you back. But he will be sat there smug thinking “Haha, see I got her where I want her. I block her. Unblock her and she comes running”. You blocking him not only sends the message to him your not interested in his pathetic games. It also stops him from blocking and unblocking you in the future
I get where you’re coming from but I keep thinking blocking him would be a reaction to him unblocking me 🤷🏼‍♀️ Like I think if I block him he knows I’ve seen that he’s unblocked me but I think maybe It’s just worth leaving it and that’s my reaction to it not being bothered, not doing anything not messaging him at all.
I just find it weird why do this and not message but especially when his girlfriend is moving in with him it’s just strange
 
Bit bizarre but can anyone recommend any shops that sell good quality bathers (for pool swimming as exercise not holiday)? I have had 2 from sports direct and they start to bobble really quickly. I don’t mind spending money as long as it’ll last.
 
Blondegirl: you’ve already taken over and derailed two separate threads over the same issue at the exact same time with pages of responses on both. Not cool. Stick to one.
 
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Bit bizarre but can anyone recommend any shops that sell good quality bathers (for pool swimming as exercise not holiday)? I have had 2 from sports direct and they start to bobble really quickly. I don’t mind spending money as long as it’ll last.
Speedo and Nike!
 
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The one I have now is speedo and it’s bobbled around the bum after a few months. I will give Nike a go though
What do you mean when you say it’s bobbled? If you are sitting on the edge of the swimming pool or other scratxhy surfaces they will make the little balls. You’re not supposed to do that because of the fabric
 
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That’s what I’ve done, I’m hardly on WhatsApp anyway it’s mainly to contact work colleagues or my sister 🤷🏼‍♀️ Most of the time I go days not going on there


I get where you’re coming from but I keep thinking blocking him would be a reaction to him unblocking me 🤷🏼‍♀️ Like I think if I block him he knows I’ve seen that he’s unblocked me but I think maybe It’s just worth leaving it and that’s my reaction to it not being bothered, not doing anything not messaging him at all.
I just find it weird why do this and not message but especially when his girlfriend is moving in with him it’s just strange
I've not seen the other thread but you keep saying the same thing over and over. are you expecting different replies?

Either block him or don't block him.

I know this isn't FB but I have a mass unblocking on FB sometimes, don't even look at the names just unblock everyone I have blocked for various reasons and leave them unblocked unless they bother me again.
 
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What do you mean when you say it’s bobbled? If you are sitting on the edge of the swimming pool or other scratxhy surfaces they will make the little balls. You’re not supposed to do that because of the fabric
So it does those little balls and it thins out. My old one had like fibres sticking through it. I don’t sit on the edge, use the steps to get in and out. I’ve even tried washing them by hand but they still do it.
 
Just hoping someone can help.
One of my cats is point blank refusing to use her little tray. She’s an indoor cat. I’ve changed the litter and all that jazz. However she tends to be just going wherever. There is no medical reason for this as I have taken her for a check over. However just over two weeks ago, she lost her kitty companion. I rehomed them off someone else and they were together with her. She is very much a heartbroken cat at the moment. Not leaving the room where her kitty companion was found. She comes down for some food every so often and then heads back up there. Any advice/hints/tips would be appreciated
 
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Aww poor cat, she is grieving. I would revert the cat litter back to the one you were using previously, my cat is extremely fickle and will only likes one certain brand. Try a plug in feliway, they help during periods of stress. She probably just needs time
 
Sorry when I said, I changed the cat litter I didn’t mean changed the brand. Mine is also fickle like that. I meant changes as in cleaned out. And there’s never anything in there. So she’s not even gone in I don’t think.

She defo is grieving and I must say, it’s heartbreaking to see.
 
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I've not seen the other thread but you keep saying the same thing over and over. are you expecting different replies?

Either block him or don't block him.

I know this isn't FB but I have a mass unblocking on FB sometimes, don't even look at the names just unblock everyone I have blocked for various reasons and leave them unblocked unless they bother me again.
It’s on the below thread. Last two pages are full of responses about this exact issue.

 
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Bit bizarre but can anyone recommend any shops that sell good quality bathers (for pool swimming as exercise not holiday)? I have had 2 from sports direct and they start to bobble really quickly. I don’t mind spending money as long as it’ll last.
I swim 3 times a week and rate Matalan and sainsburys swim wear.
 
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