rememberwayne
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I honestly do not know how people can ever support him for calling you lazy and pathetic, it seems to be some sort of cult group who adore being treat like rubbish.I was a member about 3 years ago. It’s an absolutely vile toxic group with no support at all.
I have struggled with BED my whole life because of a parent who restricted my food, used to use our dog to chase me around a field to exercise and berated me constantly for being overweight.
I’ve never successfully lost weight as emotional overeating always wins. I once asked for help in the group and Richie made me the subject of one of his rants. Using my full name. Calling me lazy and pathetic. Told me I was going to die. Told me I will never lose weight because I am weak and I actually don’t deserve to be thin or deserve his help.
At the time I was working 40 hours a week in my main job, then building a business which was another 30 hours a week - I tried to explain to him I didn’t have time to get 15,000 steps in but it was just pathetic excuses apparently. He set me back years. I’ve still not made any progress on my weight loss as in the back of my mind I hear his voice and my dads about how I’ll always be fat and lazy.
Im glad people have mentioned Preece - I always liked him and was aware of the fallout and the poor woman who was getting legal letters etc - I hope she stood her ground and stood up to them. Maybe I will have a look at Preece today and see if it’s time to make some changes.
Why have watchdog or national newspapers not got hold of someone with hundreds of thousands of followers calling people excuse makers, and more worryingly there are hundreds if not thousands with the most horrendous of dealings with them. If you join somewhere and do not lose weight, then fair play, no progress but start again elsewhere or another diet entirely etc. However to come away with feeling suicidal or with PTSD symptoms is large scale abuse in my opinion, how is he getting away with it?