Ditto JW you and yours are in my prayers xxxThank you, so kind, I really appreciate it
Even now your avatar cracks me up every time I see it!Ditto JW you and yours are in my prayers xxx
The lying Bristol bro is doing his thank you rounds on NitterOddly he’s another lover of humans
Tony remember to look both ways before you go fck yourself
Lovin your kiss curlEven now your avatar cracks me up every time I see it!
I swear I’d do him after watching him in this !! When I screamed out loud it was him with da fella … he was like ‘fckin hell love him’ he’s a right jealous arse lol but he knows I love a gangsterFor any turds who still haven't seen Ioan's brief cameo in Horrible Bosses!
I truly forgot he pees on peeps lmao … that’s cause I was screaming ‘THATS HIM GRUFFUDD’ lmao … that is not why I’d now do him ! To be clear ! was gonna put pmsl but thought better of it .. I’ll go with lol ha haI swear I’d do him after watching him in this !! When I screamed out loud it was him with da fella … he was like ‘fckin hell love him’ he’s a right jealous arse lol but he knows I love a gangster
Evening all, Fuckos@Blurp How did your PIP hearing go? Have been praying for a good outcome for you x
You're right - people largely don't consider male/male domestic dynamics. It would be a fascinating social study: perhaps researchers will come up with a report in the next decade... I know a chap in your situation. He has his own business and a few hours to relax after he finishes work, when his husband comes home and he starts his 'second job': being his husband's PA, making sure that the house is immaculate, all chores are done, and the food delicious. He becomes exhausted and frustrated sometimes, because he too is the lower earner, but without his contribution his husband's life would be in sad disarray. It doesn't stop him from feeling like a put-upon "wife" sometimes, though, and he snaps/becomes depressed/needs space.
I wonder - and *please* tell me if this is going too far; I don't want to offend you by making assumptions, ever - whether part of your current malaise is that your personal, emotional and intellectual needs aren't being met? My own mother was in your situation for years and finally broke out, got herself to Oxbridge and forged a career: she found her brain and talents atrophying and once I, a precocious child, could largely fend for myself (difficult when dealing with a covert narcissist and alcoholic father, but hey), she grabbed her precious freedom with both hands. What would help to change your dynamic and help to make the relationship feel more equal? What could your husband do to contribute to the hard hands-on work that is raising children and dealing with domestic issues 24/7? It sounds as though you need time and space for yourself, to nurture and cherish yourself, to use your evident and undoubted intellectual gifts to their fullest.
Again - if there are too many assumptions in this, I am profoundly sorry.
I can't face watching that again but I watched it again anyway.I swear I’d do him after watching him in this !! When I screamed out loud it was him with da fella … he was like ‘fckin hell love him’ he’s a right jealous arse lol but he knows I love a gangster
I truly forgot he pees on peeps lmao … that’s cause I was screaming ‘THATS HIM GRUFFUDD’ lmao … that is not why I’d now do him ! To be clear ! was gonna put pmsl but thought better of it .. I’ll go with lol ha ha
Jeez. I don't know - I guess I would think to use some kind of bleach to kill the mould and a toothbrush to get it in the small cracks but I don't know how bleach might affect leather. Maybe wash it outside with leather soap and a brush? If it's hot where you are the sun + uv light might kill the mould.Fuck. Does anyone know how to get mold permanently out of a saddle??? My basement flooded and all four of my saddles are ruined, I’m so upset.This has never happened before, I feel like I need to act quickly but I didn’t realize these were moldy for WEEKS.
https://www.horseandrideruk.com/expert-advice/articles/bring-mouldy-tack-back-life/ hope that this helps.Fuck. Does anyone know how to get mold permanently out of a saddle??? My basement flooded and all four of my saddles are ruined, I’m so upset.This has never happened before, I feel like I need to act quickly but I didn’t realize these were moldy for WEEKS.
This one’s my western saddle—I LOVE it but haven’t been able to break it in because none of my local riding schools ride western. It’s my fave one I’ll be so upset if I can’t save it.
View attachment 1385004
Several years ago an Australian friend of mine suggested using "clove bud oil" (slightly diluted), saying that was something frequently used to help combat the results of excess humidity. I used it on both leather and wooden furniture (didn't try on cloth items) and seemed to help. My leather furniture is in a less humid area than the affected wood furniture so can't vouch for long term benefit.Fuck. Does anyone know how to get mold permanently out of a saddle??? My basement flooded and all four of my saddles are ruined, I’m so upset.This has never happened before, I feel like I need to act quickly but I didn’t realize these were moldy for WEEKS.
This one’s my western saddle—I LOVE it but haven’t been able to break it in because none of my local riding schools ride western. It’s my fave one I’ll be so upset if I can’t save it.
View attachment 1385004
Oh no! That is so sad! I have nothing useful to suggest about mould on saddles, I'm afraid, but wanted to show appreciation for your beautiful saddle. I'm in awe of saddlers who work so skillfully with leather.Fuck. Does anyone know how to get mold permanently out of a saddle??? My basement flooded and all four of my saddles are ruined, I’m so upset.This has never happened before, I feel like I need to act quickly but I didn’t realize these were moldy for WEEKS.
This one’s my western saddle—I LOVE it but haven’t been able to break it in because none of my local riding schools ride western. It’s my fave one I’ll be so upset if I can’t save it.
View attachment 1385004
I have said this before, you have so many varied interests it puts us to shame. Is there no end to your talents? I have no mood solution, sorry, I hope you find one.Fuck. Does anyone know how to get mold permanently out of a saddle??? My basement flooded and all four of my saddles are ruined, I’m so upset.This has never happened before, I feel like I need to act quickly but I didn’t realize these were moldy for WEEKS.
This one’s my western saddle—I LOVE it but haven’t been able to break it in because none of my local riding schools ride western. It’s my fave one I’ll be so upset if I can’t save it.
View attachment 1385004
The Repair Shop sounds incredibly useful, and Susie knows her stuff, apparently!!Oh no! That is so sad! I have nothing useful to suggest about mould on saddles, I'm afraid, but wanted to show appreciation for your beautiful saddle. I'm in awe of saddlers who work so skillfully with leather.
We have a show in the UK called The Repair Shop (I'm obsessed) and there is a Master Saddler, Susie, who works magic on repairing all sorts of leather items. She used to live on a ranch in the US and lived and breathed her craft. She's amazing. I totally digressed there, oops. I used to ride as a kid and worked at the stables for free lol because I just wanted to be with the horses. Do you ride much?
As you know, I can be just a little too manic with the hobbies! (Don’t ever take a peep in my room—I’m kind of a hoarder!) And as you’re well-informed of by now, I live in a highly abusive home, but when my father isn’t raising hell…he’s fostering my hobbies and believing in me, and for that I owe him nothing short of gratitude. If he chose to, he could have denied me the interests that have helped me grow.I have said this before, you have so many varied interests it puts us to shame. Is there no end to your talents? I have no mood solution, sorry, I hope you find one.
Oh wow, like literally wow. I just adore horses, saddles & bridles tooFuck. Does anyone know how to get mold permanently out of a saddle??? My basement flooded and all four of my saddles are ruined, I’m so upset.This has never happened before, I feel like I need to act quickly but I didn’t realize these were moldy for WEEKS.
This one’s my western saddle—I LOVE it but haven’t been able to break it in because none of my local riding schools ride western. It’s my fave one I’ll be so upset if I can’t save it.
View attachment 1385004
Mine was cold roast chicken slices and salad. Bit of a leftover meal. It was so hot I didn't fancy much else.What's for tea tonight?
Thanks for checking in!! I was so upset about it that I admit I procrastinated on doing it (which is obviously not helping me one iota) but miraculously came to my rescue with a great set of instructions!
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?