If I had kids I'd rather spend time doing stuff with them, Tan seems obsessed with Taco and feels the need to do couply things all the time it's a sad state of affairs. When we go away we tend to do 2 nights or a week if it's further away and we will usually stay self catering it's so much more fun doing it that way in my opinion, if we go out for lunches or teas it's a nice cafe or a restaurant that not nearly every city has. She seems to go to the expensive over priced brands but then she wastes her money on over priced brand candles etc anyway its all for show. Deep down she cannot be happy with her life.
Tash does a lot more with the 'kiddies' even though sometimes she treats them like their still little kids they seem to do a lot more as a family.