Not to say she should have cheated, you should end your relationship completely first but Sarah was being a sneaky bitch. It’s absolutely not her place to say anything at all. “Infedelity” could be a full blow affair but no one really knows. It could have been emotional, a one off kiss etc.
She wouldn’t be the first woman to seek attention from someone else because their husband belittled or controlled them. I don’t think people look elsewhere if their relationship is good but Sarah and Jim seem to place full accountability on Tanya and make out like Jim was totally blameless. They shared too much that we know he definitely wasn’t perfect.
I don't like Sarah, I can't warm at all to her (and I've always found Jim cringe asf), but I kind of get why she did what she did in the context of the time she revealed this (with Jim's blessing). People were absolutely hounding her and throwing all sorts of speculative accusations wrapped in objectively vile comments at her while she sat there with a brand new baby.
And at the same time Tanya just lost half her body size, dyed her hair, deleted her youtube videos, got rid of Martha, and acted like the past didn't happen. Just doesn't address anything. She couldn't even bring herself to just say she rehomed Martha because the 'coparenting' doesn't work. What's the big deal? Instead she let's this thing run for years (see the video I linked above
![Grinning face with smiling eyes :smile: 😄](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f604.png)
). The whole rapid weight loss thing was sus asf, as she literally gave interviews trying to convince people she didn't diet and went to boot camp occasionally while also posting nothing but high-caloric junk food every other day. We've never seen her "obthethed" with some clever health salad w/out dressing. (
deception is my point here, I don't really want to get into people's ed speculations or projections now, with peace and love)
I don't know what happened between them. Tanya always had this sweet ditzy lispy persona out there, always acted like she mothered everyone, but I always suspected that she could be a major ruthless cut-throat bitch bts. Remember how mad Sam was at her when J & T split, though? I don't know lol