Him being caught cheating ain’t the reason they split up for good, let’s just say it wasn’t either her or him who pulled the plug and ended it. It was out of their control!
SpillHim being caught cheating ain’t the reason they split up for good, let’s just say it wasn’t either her or him who pulled the plug and ended it. It was out of their control!
Hmm, was he arrested or something?Him being caught cheating ain’t the reason they split up for good, let’s just say it wasn’t either her or him who pulled the plug and ended it. It was out of their control!
Not quite, he was questioned but it was someone else raised the alarm about the abuseHmm, was he arrested or something?
Wasn't he seen at the local police station not long afterwards? Rumour was it was a DA incident that couldn't be 'hidden'Hmm, was he arrested or something?
Jesus.... do I dare put 2+2 together? :'( I know, that's so common with DV too, it often has to be taken out of both people's control until it's stopped. I still can't believe his entire attitude on instagram after they broke up knowing what he done to her he totally acted as if he was the victim in the situation. Madness, I hope his new gf is safe.Not quite, he was questioned but it was someone else raised the alarm about the abuse
Yea it’s the saddest part of it all really it brings me to tears if I think about it long enough. I get so much comfort knowing all those girls are safe now. I feel sympathy towards his new gf as he will repeat his abuse again it’s a case of when not if. That monster needs put behind bars for what he’s done, the justice system is unjustJesus.... do I dare put 2+2 together? :'( I know, that's so common with DV too, it often has to be taken out of both people's control until it's stopped. I still can't believe his entire attitude on instagram after they broke up knowing what he done to her he totally acted as if he was the victim in the situation. Madness, I hope his new gf is safe.
What does this even mean? I thought Talitha left him because he was cheating? Or that he left Talitha for the mistress Clarissa? I've no idea what's going on. Can somebody please explain and be straight to the point instead of all the secrecy and trying to put two and two togetherHim being caught cheating ain’t the reason they split up for good, let’s just say it wasn’t either her or him who pulled the plug and ended it. It was out of their control!
He was/did cheat repeatedly, as well as abuse Talitha regularly. The final split was instigated by a domestic abuse incident, possibly involving Amira which the police and social services were involved in (As far as I can gather)What does this even mean? I thought Talitha left him because he was cheating? Or that he left Talitha for the mistress Clarissa? I've no idea what's going on. Can somebody please explain and be straight to the point instead of all the secrecy and trying to put two and two together
He tells a totally different story. He came home from a trip to the doors being locked and a non mol put on him. Police arrived & he had no idea what was going onHe was/did cheat repeatedly, as well as abuse Talitha regularly. The final split was instigated by a domestic abuse incident, possibly involving Amira which the police and social services were involved in (As far as I can gather)
Oh please.... I can picture his halo alright... Such a narc...He tells a totally different story. He came home from a trip to the doors being locked and a non mol put on him. Police arrived & he had no idea what was going on
It is so difficult to actually get a non MOL order granted. You need proof of abuse from a health care professional or police that physical abuse has occurred. The law is shockingly against women, their word alone will never be taken in court .He tells a totally different story. He came home from a trip to the doors being locked and a non mol put on him. Police arrived & he had no idea what was going on
She is, she’s doing amazing. It’s amazing how well you can do when you let go of everything that was holding you back literallyIt is so difficult to actually get a non MOL order granted. You need proof of abuse from a health care professional or police that physical abuse has occurred. The law is shockingly against women, their word alone will never be taken in court .
I really hope T is in touch with Women's Aid, they do a really good programme that shows how to identify red flags in a man. It's obvious he's already pick pick picking at Clarissa.
It's very obvious that she has blossomed. Go T! XShe is, she’s doing amazing. It’s amazing how well you can do when you let go of everything that was holding you back literally
Doesn’t make sense… obv something has happened which he isn’t letting on?I hope the children are recovering too . He must have abused aamira or he would def still be allowed to see her
Being in that situation you are living in constant fear and also denial that it’s actually happening to you, you justify it in your own head about how you deserve it and that you’re the bad person. It never really feels as black and white as he hit me that’s wrong leave him, it’s often very complex with lots of layers and the victims are usually never believed until it’s too late so they do stay quiet knowing that if they dare tell and aren’t believed their beating will be even worse than usual.I can't believe she stayed with him if he was being abusive in front of the two girls or even worse if he was abusive towards them who called social services and the police?
Yeah I suppose I've never thought of it that way, thanks for the insight and making us realise just how awful the situation must have been. What a piece of tit Aamir is the fact that he didn't hide away or hang his head in shame and still came online acting like everything was great just shows what a monster he is! I hope he gets his comeuppance some day I really doBeing in that situation you are living in constant fear and also denial that it’s actually happening to you, you justify it in your own head about how you deserve it and that you’re the bad person. It never really feels as black and white as he hit me that’s wrong leave him, it’s often very complex with lots of layers and the victims are usually never believed until it’s too late so they do stay quiet knowing that if they dare tell and aren’t believed their beating will be even worse than usual.
Social services were alerted by a person in a trusted profession who became aware of the abuse (I can’t go into details but read between the lines).