That’s the whole point though Talia it shouldn’t be “up to you” it’s your sons privacy your violating not yours. Where’s your photos of yourself fresh after boob job surgery? Where’s your photos straight after childbirth someone with a camera in your face 2 seconds later and shoving it on the gram, would you appreciate that? Since you clearly spend 3 hours prepping for a single selfie. Vile. I’ve been in a coma, you wake up confused, not properly aware, in pain, a lot of pain, no one took photos of me thank god. It makes me cry to think he’s so small, been through so much, woke up feeling like that and boom camera and on the gram… poor Oakley