I came here to say the EXACT thing. Its a manipulation tactic often used by an abusive partner where they isolate them. I’ve had an ex try and turn me against all my friends and make me realise that they’re shut people in order for me to be isolated and more easy to manipulate. For one boy to be able to ruin YEARS of a friendship instead of her just realising herself… idk, it’s pretty susIf Syd treated her that badly then she should’ve realised and addressed this a long time ago not just when a new boy comes along. Ell is losing her friends and changing her career because he doesn’t like it? That’s not okay
I rant to my partner if something/someone has pissed me off and he would probably say something along those lines just to make me feel better in the situation but wouldn’t really mean it. I think it’s completely normal in a relationship and I don’t doubt for a second Syd has never slagged Ell off behind her back??Sounds like Syd has been grating on Ell lately and she’s probably been slagging her off to her boyfriend. I say things to my boyfriend all the time but haven’t been in a situation like this where they’ve found out
she is following her, sometimes it dosent come up but if you go on syds following ell comes upWhen did Syd unfollow ell on instagram? Ell's following syd but Syd isn't following Ell - did I miss this happening?
i’ve been blocked twice, lost hours of sleep over it!! hardest week of my lifeBlocked by the queen brat herself, however will I sleep?
Please, this has been said a million times. You have to type the full user in sometimes as insta glitches. They ARE following each other.When did Syd unfollow ell on instagram? Ell's following syd but Syd isn't following Ell - did I miss this happening?
She hasn’t unfollowed her, she still follows both her normal and home accountsWhen did Syd unfollow ell on instagram? Ell's following syd but Syd isn't following Ell - did I miss this happening?
oh so weird I just looked and didn't see her - searched her name in ell's followers and nothing came up?She hasn’t unfollowed her, she still follows both her normal and home accounts
I agree that if it’s just him initiating it all however I was in a big and incredibly toxic friendship group which was completely ruining me and my mental health but I thought I had to keep being friends with them otherwise I’d be friendless! My boyfriend really opened my eyes to how badly they were treating me, he didn’t force me to do anything he just made me realise I was so much better off without them! Maybe this could be the case with Ell?If Syd treated her that badly then she should’ve realised and addressed this a long time ago not just when a new boy comes along. Ell is losing her friends and changing her career because he doesn’t like it? That’s not okay
i don’t always agree with that! Especially if you’re a reserved person, I’ve been friends with some of my friends since school and best friends as well, but as out going as I am in social situations, confrontation and arguments are really not something I deal well with, even if I’ve said a comment about someone or was dealing with friends who didn’t like each other I find it very stressful and I might even come across as two faced just because I want to keep the peace and please both of the. Syd has a very strong personality and I can imagine ever saying anything to her constructively ends up in confrontation so people probably avoid it. Look at how she is to people in Instagram comments, how rude and passive she is, if she’s like that to random people online IMAGINE what she’s like to people in her circle who she feels comfortable around.Unpopular opinion but I don’t feel sorry for ell, they’ve been friends for a long time so if she didn’t like the way syd was acting why couldn’t she just say it to her. Maybe the way syd was acting was a bit unprofessional but if I was her I would properly be mad to and act the same.
this is what I mean!! She’s just so rude and passive, why even reply if you’re just going to be so rude. “Is not even their birthday?” Yeah no shit Syd. I don’t even know why she bothers replying at this rateLol I acc can’t hahahah
this is what I mean!! She’s just so rude and passive, why even reply if you’re just going to be so rude. “Is not even their birthday?” Yeah no shit Syd. I don’t even know why she bothers replying at this rate
she does, for the millionth time it’s probably just a glitchGuys, i’ve tried it multiple times and syd isn’t coming up, i don’t think syd follows ell anymore...
She is? It’s been said multiple times on this thread that it’s just a glitchGuys, i’ve tried it multiple times and syd isn’t coming up, i don’t think syd follows ell anymore...
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