I'm a knitter, and for those who aren't, last year a massive discussion about race started in the knitting community, mainly on Instagram. One thing that BAME people often expressed frustration with during that time was when white people would close their comments on posts about the subject, especially after they'd already received comments from BAME folk as it's essentially deleting their work.
In my view she needed to quit the kids books stuff, make a post explaining what anti-racist work she was going to do herself (there's no shortage of resources being recommended everywhere at the moment), and leave the comments open. Then she could engage with those who are angry or disappointed, and directly tell the white women who are fawning over her that it isn't for them to forgive or absolve her.
But all of that assumes she actually cares; otherwise, deleting and hiding until it blows over is probably the best/most cynical way forward. Sigh.
In my view she needed to quit the kids books stuff, make a post explaining what anti-racist work she was going to do herself (there's no shortage of resources being recommended everywhere at the moment), and leave the comments open. Then she could engage with those who are angry or disappointed, and directly tell the white women who are fawning over her that it isn't for them to forgive or absolve her.
But all of that assumes she actually cares; otherwise, deleting and hiding until it blows over is probably the best/most cynical way forward. Sigh.