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The consumerism is mind blowing. Sheās well educated, she surely understand sustainability, would she ever just stop buying stuff!!!I loved the 2 coats that she received from Farfetch
However, the way she styled the sweaters and the clown pants
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Why can't she go in her closet, which is literally the next room, and pick items that matches these new clothes?!
she doesn't even buy, she gets it for free
Am I the only one who didnāt understand which business is she talking about in this vlog? Is she referring to youtube? Because if itās so it is definitely a side business, I mean what does she do a part of that? Does a haul sometimes, she doesnāt study anymore and reads a few books. Ok she has a baby but she said she has a lot of help, so is she really tired of being a ābusinesswomanā? Idk maybe Iām missing something. It got me thinking of women who have multiple kids and have real businesses
Edit: plus she doesnāt go to the gym anymore because she wants to focus on vlogmasā¦but what kind of content does she want to focus on? The lighting of her house? Exercising regularly could be a demonstration she actually has a life, the struggle is real and so on.
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What job was Zak doing? She mentioned he wasnāt editing for her on that basis? So what does that even mean? As he always seemed to be there
Maybe back when she showed him working on their house?
I have to say it. But if I was relying on my mum financially, which if what Iāve assumed sheās doing from what she said, I would not be going to facials and buying extra cribs and getting my nails done etc all the time. When my parents sent me money in my final year at uni I felt guilty having a takeaway or taking taxis or doing anything beyond the necessary
But are your parents mega rich? Jess lives a different life to pretty much everyone
yes but I will wager your parents are not as absolutely minted as hers.. IDK if her mum has a partner but she is a partner at a top legal firm and has been for years, plus her dad was i think something sizeable in medicine and from the looks of the farm on top of that they come from old money. There is often something about people with this amount of privilege and wealth where they feel no guilt for taking handouts etc mind you having said that my own cousin had a well paid job and was living at home and never paid her mum a penny in rent or contributed towards the household costs.
True I still think I would feel bad though. But I guess they way youāre brought up changes how you feel about money. I always worked from a Young age but if youāre parents donāt instill the value of money and thereās never any stress about money then there definitely would be a change in your feelings about money,
Her mums partner or bf or husband also works for the same firm or a similar job so including her dad all sheās had is minted role models who probably gave her a distorted view of money.
I grew up in an area of London that has a lot of wealth, and I know a lot of people whoās parents have money money and I definitely found the richer the person the stingier they are. I remember a group of girls who were shaving their heads for charity more than one parent gave 5Ā£ or less to be split between them all. Basically hand outs are great as long as their benefiting, if itās costing them itās an issue. Because people like that genuinely believe they only make that money because they work hard whereas anyone else making less or struggling itās solely because they donāt work hard
I also just find it funny that being practically unemployed, living at home with parents, living at home with parents and a partner and a baby etc is seen as so trashy for some yet a many people in her comments talk about how she lives dream life # goals
I've always thought that it's a shame she hasn't done much with herself despite all the opportunities she's had. Rich family, went to a top school (St Paul's I think?) so great start in life, and physically gorgeous which again really helps in life. Yet she's at home doing really mundane things and has been doing so for a few years. I mean I'm not saying that everyone needs to keep achieving new goals or be conventionally successful but she's literally doing duck all.
When you really think about it without rent and bills and probably not paying for all your food. Then getting clothes half price or free or paid to wear, same with beauty products. You actually probably donāt need a lot get buy and live very comfortably.
I still just find it odd because I know it would make me so uncomfortable but everyoneās right thatās from my own upbringing.
Yes she really couldāve done something interesting and being supported by parents, earning goodish money from YouTube from a young age she couldāve taken something really interesting that doesnāt pay a whole lot, well a lot in comparison to her parents. Or done something part time. She 100% has a lot of connections and really could use it to her advantage and she just hasnāt. I still think doing something in publishing or for a charity (one that helps educate children) part time would give her life alot of meaning and really help her socialise
Surprised she's committed to 10 days so far
The fact is that people who come from old money donāt know anything about the value of money. Some years ago I was having a coffee with a girl like that and she literally throw 50 euros in the face of the waiter for 2 coffees and she didnāt care about getting the change, or they donāt even care about paying people for doing their job because they were not taught to respect others.
Of course when they can manage to find a ājobā they care about saying out loud they are self-made even if they know the people they get the job fromā¦the world works like that. I know some people that come from old money that are not exactly like that butā¦I canāt stand when they say āIām privileged because my family worked hard to achieve thisā omgā¦do you think that mine didnāt if Iām not as privileged as you? Disrespectful.
I think its easier for Jess to spend as she does because she wouldnt have to ASK for the money. When she turned 18 or 21, I'm sure she had multiple trusts open and accessible for herself therefore she helps herself as and when needed. I wouldnt be surprised if her house was bought and put in to her trust either.
I know shes been with Zak for crazy amount of years but its shocking how much she could lose financially, should they ever seperate.
I know shes been with Zak for crazy amount of years but its shocking how much she could lose financially, should they ever seperate.
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