I'm the same as you. IF I do decide to have children I will probably only have one.I’m an only child and I don’t plan on having more than one child myself. Everyone is different but I never felt lonely or like I was missing out
Thank you this is my plan xxI’d start on the weight loss and start to feel a bit better then go from there it might happen naturally as you go along .
I have 4. Everyone told me going from 2 to 3 was the hardest and I'd have to agree. My first 3 were all boys and very close together in age though. I had 3 kids under the age of 3 at one point, but yours are a much more manageable age for having a newborn.I have two boys aged 5 and nearly 2. I never wanted a third, but my only sibling has recently moved away and it has triggered me to want a third! I kind of feel like an only child. I also look after the elderly and as crazy as it sounds it’s a lot of pressure for only children to look after their parents, which realistically when my parents are old it will be all on me as I live close to them. Can anyone tell me that had 3 children what the transition was like is it a good/bad idea? Our wedding has been cancelled for next year so we are getting married in 2022. If I get pregnant after my wedding I will be 32, my partner 30.
See I got told people found 1-2 harder than 2-3. But I would still worry, yes my boys would i both me at school if I had another? XI have 4. Everyone told me going from 2 to 3 was the hardest and I'd have to agree. My first 3 were all boys and very close together in age though. I had 3 kids under the age of 3 at one point, but yours are a much more manageable age for having a newborn.
I had 3 under 3 at one point then 4 in 5 years, to be honest going from 0-1 was the hardest transition for me. Once I became a parent that is who I was and adding more children just enhanced that. But none of the transitions were particularly hard including 0-1, and I wish I had had more children If I am honest. My 4 play lovely together for the most part and I definitely found parts of lockdown boring as they were all busy playing with each other and didn’t need me for anythingSee I got told people found 1-2 harder than 2-3. But I would still worry, yes my boys would i both me at school if I had another? X
I had quite a gap between my second and third so having a baby again was fun but to be honest it was just fine. I found 0-1 the hardest transition, 1-2 and 2-3 were easy in comparison. Just another one to add to the chaosI have two boys aged 5 and nearly 2. I never wanted a third, but my only sibling has recently moved away and it has triggered me to want a third! I kind of feel like an only child. I also look after the elderly and as crazy as it sounds it’s a lot of pressure for only children to look after their parents, which realistically when my parents are old it will be all on me as I live close to them. Can anyone tell me that had 3 children what the transition was like is it a good/bad idea? Our wedding has been cancelled for next year so we are getting married in 2022. If I get pregnant after my wedding I will be 32, my partner 30.
0-1 was the hardest for me because your whole life changes, but as someone mentioned above I still didn’t find it overly difficult. 1-2 and 2-3 we didn’t feel much difference at all!See I got told people found 1-2 harder than 2-3. But I would still worry, yes my boys would i both me at school if I had another? X
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