Stephen Bear #3 The epitome of Narcissism

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Dita84

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Saywhat578 said:
Honestly I wish it was as simple of being advised no contact meant no contact. It isn’t as easy as that, I’ve dealt with many many cases of DV which have been at all different stages of investigation/scheduled for court where as police we have advised don’t contact the person but occasions arise where they do for whatever reason - whether it’s to reconcile, to speak about the kids, to check they’re ok after a claimed/real suicide attempt, to argue.
guess which reason is the most common after the kids? Yep, a suicidal threat. The amount of times I’ve heard “well he/she told me he/she was going to kill themselves & I wasn’t sure if he/she was lying so I couldn’t not reply/answer the calls”.
you may be frustrated by this as an onlooker & struggle to understand it but at the end of the day, you’re dealing with humans in emotionally charged situations that are often vulnerable. People even go against restraining orders THEY have requested to have contact for reasons they think are okay (usually involving children) it’s not as black & white as it’s been reported so you have no contact.

shes been left thinking the guy tried to kill himself as a direct result of her reporting him to the police. You’d have to be a heartless person to not feel that at all on your conscience & not reach out.
you also forget there a probably 1000s of messages being received about what he’s doing, what he’s posting etc it’s very difficult to shut all that off when you’re torn thinking is he really this bad mentally or is he making it up? Have I caused this? You question absolutely everything about yourself when dealing with a narcissist including your judgement & how you view situations. This is a massive example of that being put in the public eye.
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Yeah, but I was responding to the "she is allowed to do whatever the fuck she wants" comment.
 
Crumpet41

Crumpet41

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I found him through one of this fan page accounts and then clicked his user name as he was tagged in a post.
 
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Mcjlxi

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Bash90 said:
I don’t think there’s a right or wrong way to deal with revenge porn .
it’s 3am there she’s probably Half pissed and being sent screen shots etc. It’s harder to not engage . Also if your bored of it why u on the thread lol ?
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There is right way report it to the authorities- She’s shared it directly from his post so no she’s not been sent a screenshot & because I can do what I like ? 🤷🏽‍♀️😂
 
Noodle99

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Cloff said:
I still think he’s hiding in the UK. That water park video isn’t recent. He was there on the 10th
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I think that was another day because there was a few of them. I may be wrong but I do think this one is more recent as it looks like just him and Rob. To be fair it doesn't mean the water park pic he put up and the footage georgia had werent the day after, she may have had to delete it for legal reasons. May be very wrong here but thats what I thought
 
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Brie97

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Deffo think she’s dropped it because he’s played the mental health card and made it so public and generally could be worried that if he does do something then it will backlash onto her