I couldn't see any trace of him on social media, granted I didn't do a deep dive, but I wonder if he was actually uncomfortable with his life being paraded online for all to see. I know oil rigs can be pretty brutal places for lads to take ribbing, and if someone's mrs is posting stuff online, they'd be a prime target. I'm not saying he's an angel, if the whole him being on tinder thing and not getting on with her daughter, is correct, however, but I can kind of understand why that would be grating. I have a relative that posts a lot on facebook, and I absolutely CRINGE whenever one of my friends sends me anything they post (I don't have it), and that's someone I can take a break from. I can't imagine how difficult it would be for you if it was your wife airing everything for all and sundry.