I know a lady whose first husband died from cancer. They hadn’t been married long. He was with his first wife much longer.
They had a 1 year old. She got married again very quickly after he passed. But you cannot judge how grief affects people . Difference here is she included all his family in everything,
In the last 15 years she had continued to fundraise for the charities that helped them. She posts ever birthday , Christmas , kids birthday , anniversary of their wedding, date they met, date he passed.
He was and still is the love of her life .
Her new husband knows all this and still stands by her and even he fundraises.
Here’s the difference to Steph.
Yes this lady I know got so much flack from folk about moving on too quick but her first husbands family are still heavily involved in her life and have supported her throughout. 2 of Her oldest step children from her deceased husband even lived with her and new husband as teenagers as closer to college.
Steph is just a vile vile human. She could have had that wonderful family in her life still and Lilys but she chose to be a c u next Tuesday instead