My husband had a friend who would talk about about suicide every time things weren’t going his way or if he wasn’t the centre of attention. The last time he did it I called 999. I told my husband that he was either genuinely suicidal and needed urgent help or he was lying for attention and needed to see that actions have consequences. The emergency services went to his home and he was admitted to hospital for a psychiatric evaluation and was released the following day. He never did it again.
Sadly we have someone close to us who uses the threat of suicide as a weapon. It's so hard because they don't live close to us so we have to do things from a distance and yet any offer of help goes rebuffed. But they clearly have some mental health issues they need help with and sadly the time we don't give them the attention may be the time they're actually serious and I could never forgive myself for that.
Her throwing suicide around is so dangerous and quite frankly disgusting. I don't agree with that.
I don't agree with what she's done in the past, absolutely abhorrent what she's done and apparently hasn't taken ownership. I don't agree with how she has let various strangers men into the home she's supposed to make safe for her children. I don't agree with her continuing to make tiktok her job when it's clearly affecting her mental health and risking the same for her children.
But I'm still a good person, and if she's struggling I do hope she has some genuine support and people around her.
That being said... she's doing so much of this to herself at this point, sympathy for her is surely going to wane and she NEEDS to look after herself and her children.
No amount of tiktok fame, money or exposure is worth your life.