Stacey Solomon #13 Sends her sheep to troll a designer, #bekind, do you need a reminder?

[EdgyLegend]

I can’t agree with the ‘if we can’t do it together then we don’t do it’. Obviously there will be times when you can’t do something due to the other parents schedule so why do the other kids have to miss out? I have this argument with my in laws about my nephew. They think my brother shouldn’t do anything or go anywhere on the weekends that my nephew is with his mum. Why should my nieces miss out every other weekend? Who’s to say my nephew isn’t living his best life with his mum? Fair enough a holiday but not days out

My husband has joint custody and we have my step children weekends and school holidays so to do something with half the family we would have to purposely leave them at their mums when they are supposed to be with us. For me, my step children are my family, none of us (our shared children included) want to do something fun like days out unless we're all together. Not saying its always been easy, and if their mum wants to include them in activities with her new family we never stop them, or get arsey about it being our weekend etc. Unfortunately in our circumstances my step childrens bio mum clearly favours her children with her new partner and only has days out/holidays when the kids are with us (new clothes/toys/tech/birthday parties etc for new family but not for older children). So we strive to never leave them out.

If Harry prefers to have spend time with his dad well away from the house so much I think it speaks volumes about the environment!

 

[smellyfootballboots]

Is Zach really 12? He seems a lot younger than that. Surely he doesn't take those ridiculous lunches or labelled stationary to school?

I think he is 13???? Might be wrong..

 

[kettlekitten]

Why did she just make it in the counter top?

tit! I thought they were spaghetti hoops at a quick glance!

I personally don’t understand why, that when Joe has his eldest he doesn’t just have him at home! There must be an issue somewhere with either Stacey or the older boys. ( I doubt it’s the boys, as they seem lovely!)
But joes eldest will never get to see Rex!

Maybe it’s the boys mother....

 

[S.J]

Can anyone let me know what the white thing is? All I can see is a raw chicken skin. Those four slices of carrot are making me lol too.

 

[Dont swipe up!]

With an attitude like that, no wonder it’s not working, they’re children, who found themselves in a new set up with a new family. Shame on you!

Excuse me?!!
Who the hell are you saying shame on you too??!!
You have no idea my home set up and what life has been like these past five years so how dare you say shame on you!!!
I have tried every angle to make it work but when you have the other parent making it hard and brainwashing them it was never going to work with me and my husbands kids!!!!!
Like i said it isn’t for all but for me and my children it would be good and I’m not talking of young kids they are 16!!!!!!
It works bloody both ways too!!!
If the children are hell bent on being nasty to deliberately make it hard for me and my children in our home so you have no idea how it has been!!!
I’m sorry but shame on me is truly upsetting when you have no idea the lengths I have gone too the past five years!!
It hasn’t been a year and giving up I have welcomed them into my home with open arms and like I said they are older now so yes my husband having them elsewhere would be nice I stand my ground!!!

So I’m assuming you know the person who originally posted this and their whole backstory then? Maybe try keeping your opinions to yourself and don’t be unnecessarily rude about a situation that you know nothing about and does not concern you.

Wow thank you for that I needed to hear that!
Iam the original poster and I stand my ground even though as I said I know a lot won’t like it
It’s been a tough five years trying to make this blended family work and it’s just not happening
It’s one of those scenarios that you never know how you would act untill your in that situation

 

[LittleRedRidingHu?]

Can anyone let me know what the white thing is? All I can see is a raw chicken skin. Those four slices of carrot are making me lol too.

It's a sandwich cut with a pumpkin shaped cookie cutter.

 

[Bhyfs]

Wow that illustration is telling. Rex in the middle, Harry shoved on the end. It should be eldest to youngest surely. Or Harry drawn next to Joe.

I thought this too! At first I thought it was just innocent but the more I thought into it, maybe they drew the picture and forgot Harry and rather than redrawing it all they just edited, moved Theo over and added Harry in

 

[smellyfootballboots]

Gonna get some hate for saying this but I’m a step parent family and not gonna lie would love if hubby had his two kids elsewhere
I have two kids too and they just are nasty to my kids and it’s been five years and still the same situation as it was from day dot and think they own the place
I know different options for different families but it’s hard to gel families and sometimes as much as you try it doesn’t work so i actually am abit jelous that Stacey has that set up
Like I said I know not everyone agrees but whatever works I guess

I completely agree with you. Why should 'blended' families automatically get along? Forced interactions are only resented by the kids.

Harry seems to be a very outspoken, confident lad - I'm sure he is more then capable of making his voice heard.

Ignore the shame on you comment. They are not you and know nothing about your life x

 

[Fi scot]

Can anyone let me know what the white thing is? All I can see is a raw chicken skin. Those four slices of carrot are making me lol too.

I thought it was a ball of white play dough, suppose it might as well be, seeing as no child will actually be eating it

 

[Chirpy]

Called in to my local B&M this morning on my way home from an appointment. As soon as I walked through the door I was greeted by the Christmas stuff, including a row of Gonks! Had to restrain myself from seizing one of them and drop kicking it into the next aisle!

Bloody Stacey & her ginormous bleeping eyelashes! She’s actually annoying me more than Mrs Grinch at the moment, and that’s saying something!

 

[mammaof3]

With an attitude like that, no wonder it’s not working, they’re children, who found themselves in a new set up with a new family. Shame on you!

Excuse me?!!
Who the hell are you saying shame on you too??!!

I think this person is just out to make trouble - they have gone onto 3 threads and left stupid comments on all 3.

 

[Tag89]

a child casually strolling on top of a coffee table?

just another day in the life of crafty mcgiggle face, nothing to see here!

has she washed her hair and face yet?

 

[Deanna]

Maybe she realised that admitting her boys are at their Dads and Joe with his oldest, her sheeple would finally notice that Tier 2 restrictions mean nothing to her. Because when you count them all, it's 4 households in total ( 5 if you add MrsHinch) and that ain't right, innit?

Editing to add that Joe is making a proper song and dance to show he's OUTSIDE with his son and therefore not breaking the important first rule of Tier 2: People are prohibited from socialising with anybody outside their household or support bubble in any indoor setting.

Apparently gone fishing

I thought psrevts
They piss me off so much.

Called in to my local B&M this morning on my way home from an appointment. As soon as I walked through the door I was greeted by the Christmas stuff, including a row of Gonks! Had to restrain myself from seizing one of them and drop kicking it into the next aisle!

Bloody Stacey & her ginormous bleeping eyelashes! She’s actually annoying me more than Mrs Grinch at the moment, and that’s saying something!

Mate Stacey has actually made me like bloody grinch in comparison she’s clean and so is Ronnie, he’s 100% better cared for than Rex

Excuse me?!!
Who the hell are you saying shame on you too??!!
You have no idea my home set up and what life has been like these past five years so how dare you say shame on you!!!
I have tried every angle to make it work but when you have the other parent making it hard and brainwashing them it was never going to work with me and my husbands kids!!!!!
Like i said it isn’t for all but for me and my children it would be good and I’m not talking of young kids they are 16!!!!!!
It works bloody both ways too!!!
If the children are hell bent on being nasty to deliberately make it hard for me and my children in our home so you have no idea how it has been!!!
I’m sorry but shame on me is truly upsetting when you have no idea the lengths I have gone too the past five years!!
It hasn’t been a year and giving up I have welcomed them into my home with open arms and like I said they are older now so yes my husband having them elsewhere would be nice I stand my ground!!!


Wow thank you for that I needed to hear that!
Iam the original poster and I stand my ground even though as I said I know a lot won’t like it
It’s been a tough five years trying to make this blended family work and it’s just not happening
It’s one of those scenarios that you never know how you would act untill your in that situation

dont you dare feel ashamed or guilty! I’ve been in a similar situation with bio mum making it hard and older kids being nasty to my 11 year old!! I bent over backwards for them but the only time they were civil was when I got my purse out. When me and their dad split I was glad not to have to see them anymore and do were my kids x

 

[DustyRose]

Excuse me?!!
Who the hell are you saying shame on you too??!!
You have no idea my home set up and what life has been like these past five years so how dare you say shame on you!!!
I have tried every angle to make it work but when you have the other parent making it hard and brainwashing them it was never going to work with me and my husbands kids!!!!!
Like i said it isn’t for all but for me and my children it would be good and I’m not talking of young kids they are 16!!!!!!
It works bloody both ways too!!!
If the children are hell bent on being nasty to deliberately make it hard for me and my children in our home so you have no idea how it has been!!!
I’m sorry but shame on me is truly upsetting when you have no idea the lengths I have gone too the past five years!!
It hasn’t been a year and giving up I have welcomed them into my home with open arms and like I said they are older now so yes my husband having them elsewhere would be nice I stand my ground!!!


Wow thank you for that I needed to hear that!
Iam the original poster and I stand my ground even though as I said I know a lot won’t like it
It’s been a tough five years trying to make this blended family work and it’s just not happening
It’s one of those scenarios that you never know how you would act untill your in that situation

Please don’t feel bad for your original post! It was very honest and I’m sure a lot of people feel the same way but are just too scared to admit it for fear of ignorant people not understanding.
Your priority are YOUR children, not anyone else’s. Apart from keeping them safe when they are in your care you don’t owe them a mother figure, they already have that.
More people should be as open and honest about complexities of blended families. It’s not all camping trips and smiley family portraits! (Or bleeping gonk portraits) X

 

[kettlekitten]

Can we please stop attackin other members here? We all have different opinions and have had different experiences regarding stepchildren myself included

 

[TalkOfTheGram]

Bet ditzy stacey is absolutely buzzing at the thought of being able to make videos saying she's confused about the time/forgot to change the clocks/didn't know her phone changed itsself etc.

 

[Sp20191]

Yeah I’m surprised it’s allowed but it is. I don’t get why business premises have to be Covid secure but if you’re a mobile nail artist you can just come and go from peoples houses

We are still covid secure, we have stringent measures to keep up with

 

[Em_]

That montage was so cheesy.

 

[Summernights]

So the boys weren’t at their dads this weekend then ?

 

[Asparagus123]

It’s amazing how she manages to film an emotional montage with her phone in the drawer
That phone is never out of her hands !