What I don’t get is they both go on about how your boyfriend should basically be perfect (even though it doesn’t exist) and make 1000000% effort every single day. Sophia seems to be like that more than Cinzia in my opinion but one thing I’ve noticed is Cinzia tends to only see her boyfriend on the weekend and do the same thing over and over, does anyone else see that? Most weekends she will say it’s date night, and just post food that looks like it’s probably in the same/similar place. Obviously we don’t know all of it, maybe he comes round in the week or something which I hope he does and sees her more than at the weekend bc if we’re being honest I do feel like a big reason they moved to London was for their boyfriends but I just get the vibe that is actually their relationship he just sees her at the weekend and goes for food which kinda goes against her clearly moving there (largely) for him and him still not overly bothering, and I’m sure if someone wrote into the podcast about her bf only making the same plans every weekend they’d say he doesn’t seem interested or something like that. Idk the vibe I get doesn’t match how they talk about men in the podcast but like I say maybe more happens than what we see, I just don’t get that impression. Also one time Cinzia did make a joke about not seeing her boyfriend much so it’s probably true