I know I’ll get a lot of hate for saying this, but I actually feel sorry and badly for them. We all make mistakes in life, and yes, they’ve made some disgusting unfathomable one, however they’ve now lost everything. Their mum. Their jobs. Their reputation. I can’t but feel sad for them. You see, they were clearly not brought up in a happy home. We know from Islam and now psychology that the first 7 years of a child’s life are super important. Without a doubt, they were surrounded by anger, hate, abuse- it explains their personalities. A psychologist once said, give me your child for 7 years and I’ll return him back a man.
What most people don’t understand. Is that even the trauma a mum goes through during pregnancy has an impact on her baby. The prophet (PBUH) spoke about this 1400 years ago and sconce now has proved it.
i know this is all deep, but it wasn’t their fault. What became their fault , is that
They didn’t seek help/therapy. But without real guidance after the trauma they’ve been through as children, a 30 year old is still 10!
Finally, I do wish them both well. I hope they stop chasing this life and realize that real happiness is more than that. And I hope they find that Happiness inshallah