Sofie Hagen

[emm]

This is probably the case, for me I often get stuck in a vicious cycle of poor mental health leading to poor eating which leads to worse mental health! I don't care what other people eat, but I can't imagine feeling great after eating all of those chocolate mousses for breakfast...

Yep exactly the same for me , if I was her therapist this is something I would be advising her tbh

 

[Frogfrogfrog]

Yes agree, if you are late the clue app defaults to ‘your period is due to start tomorrow.’

 

[Mo Harris]

I'm not a dog expert but isn't there a risk that without enough exercise he will become frustrated and possible aggressive?

I’m no expert either, but I don’t think it’s unheard of. Dogs who don’t get enough exercise can become really destructive too. My dog can be a bit of a chewer so if I didn’t exercise him properly he’d probably remodel my furniture out of boredom! Could be a problem Sofie’s flat is rented!

 

[AngryBird]

Read your post with great interest - was supposed to see Guilty Feminist live at the Apollo before Covid hit. Early last year I was bordering on fanatical about DFW and the podcast, but something changed during lockdown. It may have been the special lockdown episodes where she interviewed her privileged friends about how much they were suffering during the pandemic because they couldn't go for cocktails and get their hair done.

Yes! Exactly this. I loathed watching her at home. Those stupid Trelise Cooper glasses as well. Trelise is a known bitch to smaller businesses. She sued someone with a slightly similar name and was a right bitch about it. DFW bangs on about the glasses every time. Also big gaudy glasses do not a personality make. I feel better I have got his off my chest .

 

[emm]

I don’t agree with what he said to her but sending your followers after someone is out of order imo

yeah I agree, imagine it was the otehr way round? she would be accusing them of bullying etc

 

[smurphette]

Leaving the house?

TOO TRUE. And it would be so good for her. But feeling better wouldn't be as good for Instagram I suppose.

 

[bunnyblue]

yeah it is really disappointing, like most of us here I used to like her, saw her live a couple of times and listened to her podcast sometimes... but then having started to look at her social media..

I feel like the pandemic has definitely made it worse, I mean that, I really don’t remember Sofie being like this before, seems to have gotten like this in the last 6-8 months?
I think I’m still a fan otherwise, and Sofie definitely says some valuable things in captions etc, but generally, following them on SM has been really off putting

 

[emm]

She thinks she's uses them correctly and everyone else is appropriating them from her

That tweet may as well have been written directly to sofie

 

[Venuslurker]

Crikey she doesn't half go on. So much furious typing on her phone. Step away babes.

I know she prides herself on not going on but maybe she should go out a bit more?

 

[Showmethemoonie]

Bethany shares Sofie’s bitterness towards anyone who loses weight. I’m pretty sure Bethany has fallen out with quite a few of her friends who lost weight over the years.

I used to have a mutual friend with Bethany and she falls out with people all the time - has a real mean girl vibe about her.

 

[panda_eyes]

Interested to hear what people think to this...

https://amp.archive.is/oldest/https...sed-what-the-world-feels-like-for-thin-people

Guff.

 

[stopthescams]

I'm currently in the process of watching Dexter... Fuck sake.

Oh what a cow she is for that!!! Seriously. I know it came out ages and ages ago but there is no need for something like that is there

 

[lamaitresse]

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How can she not know that male dogs scent mark?! Is she really that stupid?!

I read that post and thought, what a load of old wank. Maybe she's trying to take a comedic slant, but, WTF? Don't try to project your issues onto an animal for god's sake. Treat a dog like a dog.

And, as others are saying, either WALK YOUR DOG or re-home him. It's that simple.

 

[Romy]

Ah, tbh I remember Sofie saying on a few occasions in lives/shows/stories etc that “they/he” are their pronouns, and the few times someone has referred to them as “girl” Sofie has asked them not to (“not a girl”) so I just personally avoid “she/they”.

It becomes too complicated for me

 

[jobackhorsewoman]

Jock, she's an over-thinker, for sure. I don't know if it's years of therapy that's made her like that? You get the impression that everything is psychoanalysed to the nth degree. It must be fucking exhausting living in her head, constantly trying to understand your behaviours and make excuses for them. She needs to start owing her shit. We would all like her a bit better if she just said "You know what, i was a dick. I am wrong and you are all right." And she needs to drop all this woke nonsense. She's trying to be a perfect person when, in fact, she's a mess.

And worse still, she believes with all her heart that she is the perfect person and anyone who says anything to even mildly contradict that deserves ridicule, shame and anger.

 

[emm]

Covid is a convenient excuse for her, I don’t Think that poor dog would be getting a walk even if things were ‘normal’

yeah exactly, i assume she is going to supermarkets etc, surely being out in a park is less risky anyway?

 

[emm]

I understand wanting to make the space you’re in nice even if it’s temporary, but it’s so many changes... imagine how stressful it will be when the time comes to move out, the massive list of things that will need to be changed back

yeah, I have never used that vinyl stuff but I imagine it must be pretty hard to remove? wouldn't it make the surfaces all sticky afterwards as well?
I thought I was messy but the clutter in her kitchen is stressful even for me, totally agree she would benefit from just getting rid of loads of stuff rather than all this poorly done decor changes

 

[emm]

Problem is, if her attitude towards any questioning/support from her therapists is similar to the way she interacts with people on SM, then they've an almost impossible job. For therapy to work you do have to want to engage, reflect on your issues, listen and try to change. She just seems to want everyone else around her to change.

true. pointless to do therapy like that I guess, surprised they don't just stop helping her

 

[Bohemiskeye]

Jack Monroe is the worst thing to happen to food, honestly. What is that?

 

[emm]

Was aware of her from TGF podcast and some radio 4 comedy show she did, thought she was mildly funny. Then saw her name pop up on here so just checked out her IG. Wow. Makes for uncomfortable viewing and almost feels wrong to be watching, clearly someone who is not well and where an online presence like this only serves to feed that. The lengths she goes to to argue, self-justify, make everything else someone else's problem. How did she get so many followers?
That poor dog.

yeah the same for me, I don't get how (when she says she has 2 therapists) neither of them seem to be giving her any good advice/help? She really needs to take a SM break I think