I think the age difference is the least problematic thing about shivs interactions with aoibheann.. those comments she’s left on her pictures to me come across as sleazy and leery and if a man left those comments on my pics I’d feel uncomfortable? That’s not something I’d say to my closest female friends?
to me it nearly came across like a comment a regular (overbearing) customer would leave on a sex workers post or there’s just something really uncomfortable about it like with her and sinead, Siobhan is in the power position? If she’s paying the rent or whatever it’s nearly like aoibheann just has to grimace and go along with it, that’s the impression I get or the feeling I get, maybe I’m way off.
ive had a really lovely relationship while I was in my 20s with a man in his 30s and there was nothing bad or nefarious about it, we worked in the same industry and had been friends for a long long time before it but there were noticeable differences. Maybe these don’t apply to Siobhan but this man was a home owner, made much more money than I did at the time and much more life experience. He was at a much more settled stage of life whereas I was still going out and going mad whenever the opportunity arose etc but maybe that’s what Siobhan likes. If they are together that is. I feel like she might hang out with the younger crowd because it nearly validates her lifestyle of drinking and eating so much crap because that’s kinda acceptable when you’re young and new in the adult world. Whereas in your 30s you can’t get away with as much? And she’d stand out more in a negative light with people her own age.