Crikey some of the posts here are so judgemental - unless you are a single mum to triplets I don’t think you can really judge her for doing what she needs to do to survive. I’m a new mum myself & Christ it is hard and i only have one & he has always been a relatively good sleeper. Yes she probably knows that sleepyheads aren’t advised for sleep but loads of people use them/endorse them & unless you have been in her position I don’t think you can judge. As for her having a night out & you haven’t then more fool you - my baby is 9 months & ive been out 3 times with my friends since he was born. It meant I got a break, a chance to recharge & just be me again & is essential self care to be a good mum to my little boy if im honest!
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I can't believe people are begrudging this mum for having a night off from her triplets. She's a single mum and even if she wasn't a single mum, people are allowed time away from their children. Just because you haven't had any time away from your children in 3 years, why does that mean other people can't?! Honestly some of the trolling is awful. In the real world, people do leave their children with people they trust. I can't even begin to imagine how hard it must be looking after 3 new babies alone.
Well done her for getting a break.
Well done her for getting a break.
LindaaLouu
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I personally think she’s changed and is now an awesome mum. Yes her style may not be to everyone’s standards/parenting style, but she’s trying and she genuinely adores them. It must be so hard to raise 3 babies with only 1 weekend off every 2 weeks! She actually Interacts with them, takes them out most days, takes them to baby groups, does lots of tummy time with them and has really matured as of late. She certainly does a lot more with her girls than Chloe burton does! She doesn’t also do half the dangerous and irresponsible things that Chloe does either! That’s just my opinion though 
moodyjesus
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sorry but I’m her rant on her story she says how she hasn’t had a night off in 10 weeks, I’ve not had a night off in almost 19 months but you don’t see me complaining about it 
it’s all part of being a parent
it’s all part of being a parentMrsJones83
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I can’t believe how much people actually spend on people they don’t know, someone sent her an Amazon echo from her list the other day, they’re 40/50 quid. I can kinda understand a little gift for a baby, but an echo?! 
MrsJones83
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Amazingly, fell pregnant naturally with triplets (I feel this is a rare occurrence but correct me if I’m wrong).
Three girls born by caesarean at 32 weeks, and were all home less than 4 weeks later.
The Dad was absent throughout the pregnancy and doesn’t have any involvement
Has anyone else come across her on Insta? Some of her story is absolutely amazing, but other times she just infuriates me.
She seems totally unprepared for how hard it is one with one newborn, let alone three premature ones!
Yesterday posted a picture on her stories of three car seats in the back of her car, all incorrectly and dangerously fitted. Less than 24hrs later the story has gone.
Three girls born by caesarean at 32 weeks, and were all home less than 4 weeks later.
The Dad was absent throughout the pregnancy and doesn’t have any involvement
Has anyone else come across her on Insta? Some of her story is absolutely amazing, but other times she just infuriates me.
She seems totally unprepared for how hard it is one with one newborn, let alone three premature ones!
Yesterday posted a picture on her stories of three car seats in the back of her car, all incorrectly and dangerously fitted. Less than 24hrs later the story has gone.
Ellegee
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Aren’t they gorgeous little things. She’s doing such an amazing job with them & I love that herself & their Dad are coparenting so well. I’d say he was spooked by the thoughts of 3 at the start but he seems to have really stepped up.
I think she’s incredible though, she does the bulk of it solo & I know it must be so hard but she does her best to get them out & about as much as possible
lyndseyross115
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Goes to show what a good job amy is doing with her babies. This thread is dead now
Just dropping her some appreciation and wishing her good luck! She looks like she’s got some amazing opportunities coming her way
Just dropping her some appreciation and wishing her good luck! She looks like she’s got some amazing opportunities coming her way
MrsJones83
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If you don’t want people to comment, don’t have a public insta. And by posting on her stories, she’ll have invited even more people to come over as we’re probably just saying what they’re thinking.
She’s not THAT young, she’s 27.
Ellegee
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They’re only in for a short time, in that time she has to do what she can’t get done while the girls are at home. She’s one person I wouldn’t judge for not rushing back to work. Other than the time the girls are with their dad she’s pretty much got no support. I think a mental health break is probably badly needed when you’re solo so much with 3 toddlers
GossipQueen69
Chatty Member
In all fairness, 3 I just couldn’t imagine. She’s was never a maternal person however she’s smashing it.
yes boyfriend has been on the scene but she still parented them alone, not him - it’s not his plac
The girls are smashing milestones, are loving life so she’s doing something right
yes boyfriend has been on the scene but she still parented them alone, not him - it’s not his plac
The girls are smashing milestones, are loving life so she’s doing something right
AliceInWanderLost
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nobody has an issue with her labelling herself as a single mum, because yes - she IS a single mum. the point is that she constantly said that the father is "just a sperm donor" and said that whole he's aware of the girls, he has chosen to have no involvement! it's two completely different situations to be a single parent doing it totally alone, or a single parent whose father is involved with the kids. she's a single mother in the sense that she's a mother who isn't in a relationship with the girls' father, not a mother who has been left to raise triplets completely singlehandedly with an absent father who has no part in their lives - which is ex the situation she's been claiming she's in since the start.
she's totally been misleading people, and she should feel ashamed, because people probably gifted her stuff because they felt sorry for her bringing up three babies totally unsupported - their choice, i know, but i imagine she wouldn't have received quite so many freebies if she'd been honest and explained that she'dms a single mother, in that she isn't in a relationship with the triplets' father, but that he is still involved in their life.
i also feel sorry for the guy being constantly and publicly labelled as nothing more than "a sperm donor" - her words - if he is actually involved!
she's totally been misleading people, and she should feel ashamed, because people probably gifted her stuff because they felt sorry for her bringing up three babies totally unsupported - their choice, i know, but i imagine she wouldn't have received quite so many freebies if she'd been honest and explained that she'dms a single mother, in that she isn't in a relationship with the triplets' father, but that he is still involved in their life.
i also feel sorry for the guy being constantly and publicly labelled as nothing more than "a sperm donor" - her words - if he is actually involved!
River15side
Member
What I can’t understand is the Amazon list. Is that not the cheekiest thing ever??? Then acting surprised at all the dummies that arrived when she practically asked for them. Ridiculous
hereforthegossip22
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If it’s to put food on the table and a roof above their heads what’s the big deal. She can’t stop whenever she wants. Stop being so judgemental.
If you don’t like to look at peoples children online unfollow them. It’s pretty simple.
hereforthegossip22
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I get it, ads are annoying. But she’s got a chance to make some extra money for her and the girls. So I don’t mind. I would rather her earn some cash than half of these ex towie girls who get everything for a baby for free… l
The two people that have come in here sticking up for her, please go, we don’t do that here and no one is being offensive and saying anything that isn’t true? The person that said you will do what you need to survive, I get that, but what about taking away the blanket so your baby can survive, and also re the sleepyheads just because other people used them doesn’t make it safe or right? And I’m sure any parent that has lost a child to sids will have a lot to say about that ignorant comment as for some of them it cost them their babies life. No ones being horrible and bad mouthing her parenting, but the simple matter is she isn’t following safe practices for her premature triplets. Also I can’t believe that she has strapped the car seats on like that and I hope she has changed it before she goes on a drive, this isn’t minor things like using dummy’s or not wearing a cot, this is literally life of death and if you can’t see that then you shouldn’t be a parent, I’m sorry
No ones trolling though? Giving the correct information to someone isn’t trolling, it’s doing the right thing, if you’re too blind to see that then shame you.
