Single by Choice

[Here for gossip]

You absolutely can post here, but I’m not sure how useful it will be. The dating thread is very active and they’ve seen every trick in the book!

Didn't see the dating thread on this will have a look for it

 

[LaBlonde]

I can go one better. I received a photo of this bloke lying on a coffee table, legs in the air with his arse cheeks pulled wide apart. I actually laughed at the time because it was ridiculous and quite frankly who the fuck would want to see that?! But looking back now it’s all shades of wrong isn’t it? Needles to say it put me right off. I could never look at him the same way funnily enough

i am intrigued as to how he took this photo?!! or if he got one of his friends to take it

like you say, how are you meant to react to that? it would be all i could see whenever i looked at him!

 

[Missmopps]

If I never smell a cheesy ball sack again - I will die a happy woman!

don’t buy those deli sausage treats if you have a dog then as they smell exactly like sweaty ballsacks!!

 

[Sideboard Bob]

I’m so sorry you received such poor care. What a ridiculous notion - all this does is perpetuate the MYTH that children / marriage is a bed of roses. I hope you get the care you need!

Oh that’s a good point! That kind of attitude is really insulting to married people too.

 

[LaBlonde]

I just want to say quickly, I wasn't insinuating neurodiverse = ace. It was more that I was wondering as I compartmentalise everything so I wasn't sure if my splitting up of attraction was an asexual/ace thing or my autistic brain lol!

ETA: or both, or neither... you catch my drift

oh dw! i think it’s a valid comparison to make in all honesty, i’ve certainly found that my ocd directly or indirectly influences it

 

[petitspois]

Oh I’ll take a look at that podcast, thank you.

 

[shadowcat5]

i think you said earlier that you identify with being demi too? (sorry if this wasn’t you ) but THIS exactly. i cannot feel an instant attraction to anyone really, i have to have some degree of feeling of what they’re like as a person and some level of slow build before i even consider it. meeting in bars doesn’t work for me and i’m not sure if i would/will ever meet a man who will go at the glacial pace i need. maybe one day!

i always like speaking to other demisexual people. it’s still so new and it’s valuable to know it’s not just me

im really glad we can have conversations like this. I still haven’t quite figured out what I am (im on the asexual spectrum somewhere) but hearing people talk really helps with that and making me feel like I’m normal.

maybe this is down to being autistic or whether it’s a sexuality thing or both, so I am eager to know if this is a thing other people experience on here and where better to ask I guess

i can recognise sexual attraction vs romantic attraction vs I just find you aesthetically very pleasing but that’s where it ends. I’ve never done research on it so I don’t know but I’m wondering if other people feel this way

 

[Zulkraa]

Will this thread get shut down if we recommend our love honey (other shops available) purchases Because everyone needs to know about the satisfyer 2

I’m all about the Lelo toys these days

 

[Olgivy]

I got a Lupin from B&M yesterday and today I got another lovely plant from Asda. I forget the name of that one though

Lupins are so colourful. I wish they took better care of the plants in B&M, so many of them were drier than the Sahara desert!

 

[FrostyChops]

My nobhead cat was supposed to be a girl but the vet assured me she was a boy. She has a very feminine name and I use female pronouns.

Until he shits on my floor then I use male pronouns oddly.

One of mine pushed my vase of flowers off the mantle, smashed glass and water everywhere. I should have known she would do that, she can't help herself..!

 

[kendallroysdownfall]

My instagram algorithm is so good that I’ve not seen one single heartfelt earnest Valentines post. Every suggested post is either a piss take or something nice about self-love/soulmate friends. Love that for me

You are a legend!

 

[kendallroysdownfall]

Also, a question for all of you - how do you deal with being touch starved? All I want is to be held sometimes.

I don't feel this way at all and I always enjoyed physical affection in relationships.

 

[newtoyou]

I’m all about the Lelo toys these days

I have the Ora and I really like that as I don’t really like the d*ldo type toys. I’ve read their air pulse one is a bit tooo powerful though

 

[blockbaby0]

You remind me of me at 26. Go for it

thank you! I definitely will. Nothing here for me I feel.

 

[GiftedNotFree]

How are we all doing singletons!! Keeping Love Honey in business I hope?

Thought I'd pop in as I went to the cinema on Tuesday with my friend and her partner. It was a "de lux" showcase, and I found it hugely annoying that the seats are sold in twos (with the middle arm rest removed so you can cosy on up, and swinging table arms either side). Ended up in a 'cuddle' seat next to a complete stranger throwing her popcorn into the air at every jumpscare Will be opting for the recliner seats instead next time!

Sorry I know it’s crap that there’s no options for singles, but this has seriously cracked me up !!! Not a cuddle seat with a stranger 🫣! I can’t stop laughing.

 

[unidentified]

thankfully my close friends (who i mainly go out with!) aren’t like that and we go out really to enjoy each other’s company (and drink cocktails ) - but i hear you on other friends. a mutual friend once told me i was a terrible wingwoman because i didn’t look like i was “inviting people over”, i said sorry but i wasn’t sure why i was apologising

Oh I’m luckily in that it wasn’t for them and they wanted me to be open because you just never know and I totally get that but I don’t know how. This is where I don’t know how I would find someone when I need something there first.

 

[newtoyou]

Hahahahaha WHAT!! What exactly does that solve?!

The fact that I think I like someone and am confused about it

 

[peachesandcreamz]

Guys, I feel only you would understand how stupid this is. Long story short I was on this free counselling site talking about the fact that I think I’ve developed feelings for someone for the first time in my life (it’s a no go btw). I explained that I’ve never had these feelings and had been happily single forever. And the person replied “you need to get married” (not to this person I like, just in general). And “it’s the only solution” Great, thanks.

Hahahahaha WHAT!! What exactly does that solve?!

 

[GiftedNotFree]

Didn't see the dating thread on this will have a look for it

It’s in the advice forum.

Dating after lockdown #38 midnight messages from the ghost of boyfriends past

Just a little update for you all on the cocklodger situation. He has started moving things out. Some clothes and toiletries have gone. So I think he will be gone by this weekend. I’m devastated and feel sick but I know it’s for the best.

tattle.life

 

[Olgivy]

FDS is still around on the down low truly a revolutionary attitude changer for me that I would implore any straight women to look at.

Did it get taken down? I looked at the subreddit, and it doesn’t seem active anymore.