I got tea and toast with my first as he was born at lunchtime. However when I say tea and toast, I got an actual teacup and saucer of tea, so that was gone in a mouthful, and one slice of toast which had been spread with some nasty sunflower spread type stuff and then left for about 15 mins so it was cold and soggy. I was starving as I'd not eaten for about 18 hours so ate it regardless
and then once up on the ward phoned my friends to tell them a) I'd had the baby and b) to bring me in some food later!
I was staggered by the amount of stuff she was taking in with her - I take less stuff than that going on a fortnight's holiday
I had no idea if this is normal now as my kids are in their 20s but it seems from your replies she is, as usual, just being extra about it! - for my firstborn I basically took in a small rucksack with my stuff in (change of clothes and basic toiletries) and a few changes of clothes for the baby, nappies etc)