Yeah this is exactly how I feel. I don't really care at all if she's lost or gained weight, or if she fits old clothes or doesn't. I care that she lives a fake, externally driven life of toxic positivity, carefully controlling what she shows the world to curate a desired image that will ultimately be damaging for anyone who actually believes her.
Perfect example this weekend, she stays at a luxury home, and within minutes of posting about it she reveals the outrageous price it costs to stay there per night. She isn't paying that cost, but doesn't declare that the stay is a business deal, and that she and Tent are not paying the full price to stay there. The amount of disposable income you would need to just casually chuck down over $7000 for a three day weekend staying there is just SO much more than anyone living in a shoebox in Scott Point can afford, but she wants her followers to think that she could.
Another perfect example, the question she just answered this morning about the "positives of having 2 under 2." Instead of admitting some of the crazy (we have two under two as well, and it has been amazing, but definitely A TIME) she just casts a blanket statement of "there isn't a single negative aspect". This just obviously isn't true! There are totally some negative aspects. I think they are completely outweighed by the positive aspects (in our experience) but by having two kids so close together it is just clearly more difficult than having kids three years apart.
In her mind, erasing all the negative/undesirable parts and pretending they aren't there is the perfect way to create a perfect view of her life. What she doesn't realise is that it's toxic. It's not encouraging, and it doesn't help. This follower has asked the question "what are the positives" because she's obviously freaking out about the situation she's in, and wants some actual encouragement. Simone clearly doesn't want to (or can't) engage meaningfully with this request. Why not empathise with your follower's genuine concern, with a message like "Oh how wonderful. Yes, changing two sets of nappies and juggling differing sleep schedules can be a challenge at first, but what we've found is so wonderful is that your babies will be so closely aligned in their experiences of the world from a young age, and you get all the crazy of baby stage over and done with much more quickly!"
But that would require you admitting that anything in your life is anything less than absolute perfection, and you couldn't stand for that kind of truth could you Simmo? Toxic, toxic liar.