I was thinking that. Why is he acting as though it’s a shameful thing? After he lectures us about falling in love again not being shameful? Derrina must be so incredibly insecure about it for him to have to keep trying to erase all reference to his first wife.Surely you’re still classed as a widow, after you re-marry? The same as if you get divorced - that isn’t suddenly erased by a second marriage.
There’s no shame in being a widow and there’s no shame in falling in love and getting married again. But to deny one to suit the other???
He’s hideous.
If it’s not her who is being antsy about, what reason could it be???