I’m sorry but paying her daughter £20 to put socks on and washing her face ya know basic hygiene!! There’s nothing wrong with them kids at all they have spoilt brat syndrome and if maybe she stopped bringing them up the way she is she’d notice a huge difference in them it’s not autism and adhd at all. Blimey if I knew my mum would pay me to do something I’d kick off and not do it either. Allowing L to walk into school with a bright blue ice lolly that’s stained her lips is disgusting parent your kids Sian