Shannen Joyce #11 Lads it’s been said again and again but there is nothing that gets past a tattler

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Bidscavan

Bidscavan

Hector Crowbar. said:
You've never went to a funeral as a day out?
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Have to say I've never gone to a funeral as a day out. I usually go to mourn and offer my condolences. I've also never gone to a funeral of someone I've only met once or twice. And funny enough I've never gone to a funeral and tagged meself having cocktails there. I could be weird though 🤷‍♂️🙄
 
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Gwaygurl

Hector Crowbar. said:
You've never went to a funeral as a day out?
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Funeral as a day out .......wow , a 34 year old woman has died leaving behind two young girls but let's go to Longford for a day out and a piss up ........wow
ETA. She wasn't particularly close with this woman , I understand some people say when I die I want a party thrown to celebrate my life ,but I'm guessing that would be for actual friends not someone looking for a pat on the back for moving her launch 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
 
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dontcome@me

I’ve also never gone to a funeral for a f*cking “day out”. Is that actually for real like
 
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Frilly Milly

Clearly, anyone that goes for the piss up or a day out at a funeral hasn't been affected closely by death, or has the brain the size of a pea when it comes to morals.
 
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lodgequeen

lodgequeen

An oul wan who lives over the road only leaves the house for funerals. We called her months mind.

Maybe she’s now on tattle?? Howya Mrs. Quinn 👋

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Nijinsky_92

Nijinsky_92

Listen folks there's no other funeral like an Irish one.
My mother had a hard battle with cancer and whilst we paid respects I think it's well known that there's a massive piss up. We had the best craic, it's what she would of wanted.
 
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ahtisyourself

ahtisyourself

The best craic? Each to their own I guess. There’s no doubt about it that pubs and drinking tend be a central feature of Irish funerals but any I’ve been to have always been somber and respectful affairs, especially when the person who passed is young. I certainly would not be tagging myself in the pub drinking on the eve of their funeral.. I find that so tacky.
 
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Nofilterdee

ahtisyourself said:
The best craic? Each to their own I guess. There’s no doubt about it that pubs and drinking tend be a central feature of Irish funerals but any I’ve been to have always been somber and respectful affairs, especially when the person who passed is young. I certainly would not be tagging myself in the pub drinking on the eve of their funeral.. I find that so tacky.
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Agreed. Very contradictory to be emotional on socials and then be out necking cocktails...
 
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Nijinsky_92

Nijinsky_92

ahtisyourself said:
The best craic? Each to their own I guess. There’s no doubt about it that pubs and drinking tend be a central feature of Irish funerals but any I’ve been to have always been somber and respectful affairs, especially when the person who passed is young. I certainly would not be tagging myself in the pub drinking on the eve of their funeral.. I find that so tacky.
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Yeah the whole process throughout really helped us as a family. Sharing funny memories and laughing on easier times. I think alot of people use humour as a coping mechanism. I know I do. Don't get me wrong I cried alot! Funerals can be a time where alot of family members/ friends come together whom you maybe haven't seen in a while.
That being said, I didn't blast anything on social media and remained respectful throughout, so I agree with the constant posting etc online.
Dunno think my point is, every one grieves differently, doesn't mean it can't be done respectfully.
 
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Graywalls

I understand the need for family and friends to get together at a time like this. In my country when a person dies, neighbours and friends make a food dish or wine and bring it to the house, after the burial people then go back and have a meal and some wine and talk about your memories of the person.
Tagging yourself drinking a cocktail the night before though is not in good taste.
 
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Nijinsky_92

Nijinsky_92

Graywalls said:
I understand the need for family and friends to get together at a time like this. In my country when a person dies, neighbours and friends make a food dish or wine and bring it to the house, after the burial people then go back and have a meal and some wine and talk about your memories of the person.
Tagging yourself drinking a cocktail the night before though is not in good taste.
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No I agree with tagging yourself drinking etc online I think that's disrespectful and poor taste
 
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