Shamima Begum

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It’s hard to find much on starvation in ISIS from 2015 onwards but around 2019, when ISIS was falling apart, stories did come out about malnutrition:

I think she mentions in the podcast that they moved out of Raqqa while she was pregnant because the husband realised that it was going to fall and didn’t want to stay there. So much for loyalty to ISIS. It would suggest to me that they probably didn’t have endless food to access at that point though

I also love that no one asks him why he didn’t feed the children while he seems to be implying blame on Shamima.
He seems like a really awful person tbh, although what could you expect ? Even him criticising her for not having much life experience, wtf would he expect from a 15 year old girl?
 
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It’s hard to find much on starvation in ISIS from 2015 onwards but around 2019, when ISIS was falling apart, stories did come out about malnutrition:

I think she mentions in the podcast that they moved out of Raqqa while she was pregnant because the husband realised that it was going to fall and didn’t want to stay there. So much for loyalty to ISIS. It would suggest to me that they probably didn’t have endless food to access at that point though

I also love that no one asks him why he didn’t feed the children while he seems to be implying blame on Shamima.
Her husband was a welder ( apparently) he said he tried to provide and look after her, her daughter is pictured in this vid, he doesn’t mention anything about lack of food id assume ISIS fighters would be well nourished if they’ve got a war to fight, I’d doubt he would take on womanly duties when he said she was there to serve him and look after the children and household.

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Looks like incarceration doesn’t agree with him he’s aged about 20yrs since his last interview.
 
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id assume ISIS fighters would be well nourished if they’ve got a war to fight
From what I understood he didn't go back to fighting. He was injured and arrested at some point after the marriage
 
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From what I understood he didn't go back to fighting. He was injured and arrested at some point after the marriage
He was imprisoned because they thought he was a spy he then became a fighter, his story has a lot of holes and contradictions as does hers.
 
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He was imprisoned because they thought he was a spy he then became a fighter, his story has a lot of holes and contradictions as does hers.
Riedijk had fought in the bloody battle for Kobane at the end of 2014, against the Kurdish forces who now hold him, and was injured during the fighting.

Previously he had been arrested just 10 days into their marriage.

When he was eventually released Riedijk claims he distanced himself from ISIS in Raqqa, where he was living with Begum.

'A lot of people had talked about me, basically saying I was a spy and bad things. I started to distance myself from them, hang about with the Arabic community, mostly civilians.'
(From The Mail)

I'm not sure what the holes in his story are given that the majority of articles about him are just linked to Shamima. Going from being labelled a spy to being a fighter doesn't seem like a massive hole as it's probably expected of him to do that

For context: the Kobani battle is listed as lasting between Sept 2014 and March 2015 on Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siege_of_Kobanî
Shamima arrived February 2015

From the podcast it sounded to me like the timeline had been that he was injured at some point or other and then arrested soon after his marriage to Shamima
 
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(From The Mail)

I'm not sure what the holes in his story are given that the majority of articles about him are just linked to Shamima. Going from being labelled a spy to being a fighter doesn't seem like a massive hole as it's probably expected of him to do that

For context: the Kobani battle is listed as lasting between Sept 2014 and March 2015 on Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siege_of_Kobanî
Shamima arrived February 2015

From the podcast it sounded to me like the timeline had been that he was injured at some point or other and then arrested soon after his marriage to Shamima
Who was the father of the children if he was imprisoned shortly after the marriage? He said he fought one battle for ISIS and only lived a normal life as a welder as it wasn’t how he imagined IS to be.
 
Who was the father of the children if he was imprisoned shortly after the marriage? He said he fought one battle for ISIS and only lived a normal life as a welder as it wasn’t how he imagined IS to be.
He was imprisoned and then let out
 
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Who was the father of the children if he was imprisoned shortly after the marriage? He said he fought one battle for ISIS and only lived a normal life as a welder as it wasn’t how he imagined IS to be.
It does say 10 days into their marriage, plenty of time to have sex. He was also obviously released some time after? They then moved out of a shared house into their own place, Shamima got pregnant and at some point during that pregnancy they moved cities

The first pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage
 
Just out of curiosity I looked for Tareena Shakil on Instagram. She was another Isis bride and came back to the UK, served prison time and deradicalisation course. We talked about her a bit a few pages ago.

She's now a self styled "fashion blogger" and globetrotter.


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Shamima’s timeline is absolutely insane, especially if you consider her age

She arrives to Syria after being smuggled, gets put in a house and told she has to get married, within 10 days (according to some article) she’s married to a man she barely knows who’s 23(?), has her first sexual experience with him, he gets arrested after 10 days and she’s left to live with a man who seems to have had a bad reputation and his wife, at some point she has a miscarriage and has to be explained by the woman about what is happening to her

It’s such a short amount of time
 
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It does say 10 days into their marriage, plenty of time to have sex. He was also obviously released some time after? They then moved out of a shared house into their own place, Shamima got pregnant and at some point during that pregnancy they moved cities

The first pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage
That’s what I meant he was still around her while being an ISIS fighter, she said her older two children were still being fed there was food shortages but they managed, her son died around 8 month’s old and her daughter was around 18 months ,she doesn’t know what happened to them they just went to sleep one night and never woke up .
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Shamima’s timeline is absolutely insane, especially if you consider her age

She arrives to Syria after being smuggled, gets put in a house and told she has to get married, within 10 days (according to some article) she’s married to a man she barely knows who’s 23(?), has her first sexual experience with him, he gets arrested after 10 days and she’s left to live with a man who seems to have had a bad reputation and his wife, at some point she has a miscarriage and has to be explained by the woman about what is happening to her

It’s such a short amount of time
That’s another thing she doesn’t mention about being smuggled only that she was radicalised online and ISIS lied to her about being framed by the media over bombings, they made her feel guilty for wanting to stay with her family.
 
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That’s what I meant he was still around her while being an ISIS fighter,
From my understanding they only got married because he was injured. If he hadn’t been injured, he would have got married once he returned - by which time Shamima would likely have been married to someone else

Not that it really matters whether she was or was not married to an ISIS fighter imo, she lived under ISIS so there’s a good chance that she would have met plenty of evil people and those with strong ideologies - though it doesn’t sound like he’s very loyal either, just subscribed to misogyny
 
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From my understanding they only got married because he was injured. If he hadn’t been injured, he would have got married once he returned - by which time Shamima would likely have been married to someone else

Not that it really matters whether she was or was not married to an ISIS fighter imo, she lived under ISIS so there’s a good chance that she would have met plenty of evil people and those with strong ideologies - though it doesn’t sound like he’s very loyal either, just subscribed to misogyny
He said they weren’t evil they were just a regular couple that lived in a terrorist state 😂..I thought it was her wanted the marriage she needed a husband to support her in ISIS territory?
 
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Shamima’s timeline is absolutely insane, especially if you consider her age

She arrives to Syria after being smuggled, gets put in a house and told she has to get married, within 10 days (according to some article) she’s married to a man she barely knows who’s 23(?), has her first sexual experience with him, he gets arrested after 10 days and she’s left to live with a man who seems to have had a bad reputation and his wife, at some point she has a miscarriage and has to be explained by the woman about what is happening to her

It’s such a short amount of time
She was living with an Egyptian arms dealer or something when her husband was on prison accused of being a spy. She doesn't seem to know much about him and a lot of people seem to doubt that, like she must have questioned him or seen what he was up to.

She was 15 and had been in Syria a month and she's suddenly left alone with this random man that she would have to cover her face around. I doubt she did much except exactly what she was told.
 
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He said they weren’t evil they were just a regular couple that lived in a terrorist state 😂..I thought it was her wanted the marriage she needed a husband to support her in ISIS territory?
I mean that does ring true as stupid as it is, and obviously if we remove the whole age thing

It doesn’t seem to be certain whether Shamima knew she would have to get married more or less straight away. All the new arriving single women were put in a special house (even has a specific name) which they would only be able to leave once they got married. I personally have some doubts that the ISIS propaganda videos would mention that but who knows
 
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That’s another thing she doesn’t mention about being smuggled only that she was radicalised online and ISIS lied to her about being framed by the media over bombings, they made her feel guilty for wanting to stay with her family.
She was smuggled across the border by a Canadian asset. She does talk about that in the documentary, waiting in the bus station and then getting driven over the border. "Smuggled" doesn't mean she didn't go voluntarily, just that a people smuggler was involved.
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I mean that does ring true as stupid as it is, and obviously if we remove the whole age thing

It doesn’t seem to be certain whether Shamima knew she would have to get married more or less straight away. All the new arriving single women were put in a special house (even has a specific name) which they would only be able to leave once they got married. I personally have some doubts that the ISIS propaganda videos would mention that but who knows
I think to a teenage girl the thought of being able to get married and play house is probably quite appealing. Young girls can be incredibly naive.
 
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I think to a teenage girl the thought of being able to get married and play house is probably quite appealing. Young girls can be incredibly naive.
I can see the whole thing about the husband being older also potentially being appealing. Though there’s a huge difference between “fantasy” and real life, especially when it comes to intimacy

She must generally have a lot to process about her first relationship and she’s likely doing it alone as I doubt she has access to a therapist
 
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I can see the whole thing about the husband being older also potentially being appealing. Though there’s a huge difference between “fantasy” and real life, especially when it comes to intimacy

She must generally have a lot to process about her first relationship and she’s likely doing it alone as I doubt she has access to a therapist
Absolutely. It sounds grown up and exciting until you're alone with a man 8 years older than you who expects you to respect and obey him and who no doubt has a lot more experience than you. She probably realised pretty quickly that the only way to survive was to stay with him.
Kadiza and Amira both seem to have been killed after their husbands had already died.

I know they have women running the morality police but I really don't think women would be given opportunities to do much more even if they wanted to. To isis women are at best breeders who are there to serve men. At worst, they are slaves (yazidi). I just can't see them allowing women to play more of a prominent role than that.
 
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