They are 100% both as bad as each other. I’d never take Seagulls word as gospel. Makes me wonder if he had control of spending to stop Seagull buying a tit load of tat on a credit card putting them into debt as he was clearly the bread winner when she was a Karen in a pharmacy once a week or how ever many days she did. Whatever it is, they don’t look to be in a happy loving relationship.I’m not convinced! The culture they’re from the man does hold more power than the woman and I think that’s why he can’t be fucked with his daughter because he probably sees it as a woman’s job! Ela has said a few times when they’ve been eating ‘daddy doesn’t do much with us’ he never sits with them he’d rather sit on the sofa to eat his dinner whilst his family sit round the table, all their days out are without him! They’re both as bad as each other and that’s why their daughter is an annoying brat because she’s being spoilt rotten by Sevda to make up for a dad that can’t be arsed, her dads main language is Turkish and she can’t even speak it properly! Why hasn’t he got his daughter speaking his native language at the age she is now!