I remember months ago might of even been last year she was going to stay in one of those caravan holidays with Lisa , Ela and Bobby and in one of her tiktoks the day before or the day they were going to the caravan , Sevda said something along the lines of āIāve left food for Sedat to heat up for himself cause Iām not giving him money for a takeaway when Iām not hereā and I found that so odd. Does she not trust him with money? Is she just more controlling with money since her TikTok took off or is she that greedy with food that she has to be included in every takeaway even if sheās going for a meal out and she getting a takeaway with other people , she still has to control what Sedat eats?
Of course we donāt see what goes on behind closed doors so they might both be hard to live with and both as bad as each other in some ways but one thing thatās for certain is that doesnāt seem like a genuinely happy marriage. Thereās been times theyāve cleared had bad arguments and she shows up at her mums house late at night on a school night just her and Ela. Thereās no chemistry between her and Sedat and nothing can convince me they are in love. Her own dad spends more time with Sedat than she does and she seems to avoid spending time alone with Sedat. She has her mum or sister over constantly as a way of not being alone with him and also the fact she canāt do anything for herself.
She can hang up all the photos she wants of them kissing but all the moaning she does about him she obviously isnāt happy with him and honestly who would be happy with someone like her whoās a bully and manipulative. Was she desperate to get married and nobody else was interested so she decided heās better than nothing? Itās crazy they were in a relationship for years before they got married so she should of known enough about him to know if she could see herself being married to him.