Okay I take your point. But isn’t is a bit naive to take something at what someone says at face value? Would you judge a person on their behaviour rather than a chat up line? We all like to present ourselves as the best person we can when we first meet. It is only when we have known someone a while that we are in a position to make a proper judgement about their character. If someone bases their decision on another’s character solely on a first meeting they are leaving themselves open to a major disappointment! This works both ways. I have plenty of women who claim to be “good” only to find out they bag around whilst in a relationship.Obviously anything is possible.
In broad terms though, the more often a guy feels the need to announce what a great chap they are, especially as part of a greater whinge about being single, the less likely it is to be the truth.
I don't think many women would disagree.
Anyway, not why I'm on this thread. I'm here to distract myself from the shitness of modern life, not to discuss it in detail![]()