I doubt Fry has ever cruised in his life! He did a BBC documentary about life for gay people in countries where it’s still criminalised, and during an exchange with a man in Uganda who was talking about how “disgusting” anal sex is, SF said “But I don’t have anal sex, never have!” Then explained that he’s into “intercrural sex... like the Greeks” (which is THE most Stephen Fry-esque way to explain his sexual proclivities
).
So there you go. I could have happily stayed ignorant to how SF had sex, but now I’ll never forget it