Where did she say she was paying 12k?could all the breakfast and after school clubs add up to that? That’s mental, just wasting money?
Breakfast club at my kids is school is £5 a day, a private after school club not attached to the school I used to use was £11 per day, they’d pick her up from school. I don’t use it anymore because the one good thing that came from the pandemic was my job became more flexible. She’s talking tit 12k but where did she say this? That kid isn’t in a private school.
Kids are bleeping expensive. She’s self employed and has no good reason to be using breakfast clubs - her shop opens at 11am. Get home and see your bleeping kid.