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Sarah's Day #23 I'm such a loser, just like you guys!
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Everytime they show fox, i think they need to start setting boundaries. Like in a recent vlog - fox is rambling/screaming when they don’t want him to and instead of telling him that, they cover his mouth and laugh?
Like of course he‘s not gonna stop if you give him attention?
Like of course he‘s not gonna stop if you give him attention?
She’s crying that Kurt is the favourite but then in the pics she posted of the day she isn’t even taking photos with him, she is so in to herself that she is doing super model poses.
I didn’t like the crying part of the vlog, I don’t need to humanise her. She is so starved for content that a 20 minute Easter vlog had 10 minutes of crying, then on Easter Sunday she “forgot” to vlog.
Also LOL at forgetting to go to church on Good Friday and then showing us how she says Grace before dinner, whatever. Armchair Christian.
I didn’t like the crying part of the vlog, I don’t need to humanise her. She is so starved for content that a 20 minute Easter vlog had 10 minutes of crying, then on Easter Sunday she “forgot” to vlog.
Also LOL at forgetting to go to church on Good Friday and then showing us how she says Grace before dinner, whatever. Armchair Christian.
the comments from her newest vlog are killing me!!!
like hunny, those lip fillers do NOT look natural, who are u kidding???
But the comment on mentioning all companies mid breakdown
like hunny, those lip fillers do NOT look natural, who are u kidding???
But the comment on mentioning all companies mid breakdown
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New vlog thoughts:
- that french toast looked dry af
- why would you try book church the day before Good Friday?
- ooooh what a surprise! 2 minutes and we're back flogging skincare products!
- Fox's bottle is full of so much supplements... Is a rash a common side affect of lactose intolerance? My lacto-free pals never have had rashes so I don't know
- 'DONT COME AT ME. ESPECIALLY IF YOURE NOT A MUM' way to keep the vlog light and up-beat
- the way she says I want it to be 'healthy: dairy free, gluten free" is such a bad message. GF/DF doesn't equal healthy!
- lol at the Sunnee plug
- I do feel bad watching her cry but I do worry about the timing and it being a classic Sezzy distraction technique considering how this comes after her recent bad press...
Fox obviously has severe abandonment issues and they need to get him additional help.
Kurt always devoted more time to Fox, it's sad she doesn't feel like his favourite but Kurt has always been shown to spend more time playing and messing around with Fox.
- cute egg hunt
- ANOTHER SUNEE PLUG OMG
- love that she ended on that weird photo of her posing next to Fox
Apart from her crying basically nothing happened in that vlog ...
- that french toast looked dry af
- why would you try book church the day before Good Friday?
- ooooh what a surprise! 2 minutes and we're back flogging skincare products!
- Fox's bottle is full of so much supplements... Is a rash a common side affect of lactose intolerance? My lacto-free pals never have had rashes so I don't know
- 'DONT COME AT ME. ESPECIALLY IF YOURE NOT A MUM' way to keep the vlog light and up-beat
- the way she says I want it to be 'healthy: dairy free, gluten free" is such a bad message. GF/DF doesn't equal healthy!
- lol at the Sunnee plug
- I do feel bad watching her cry but I do worry about the timing and it being a classic Sezzy distraction technique considering how this comes after her recent bad press...
Fox obviously has severe abandonment issues and they need to get him additional help.
Kurt always devoted more time to Fox, it's sad she doesn't feel like his favourite but Kurt has always been shown to spend more time playing and messing around with Fox.
- cute egg hunt
- ANOTHER SUNEE PLUG OMG
- love that she ended on that weird photo of her posing next to Fox
Apart from her crying basically nothing happened in that vlog ...
Eughhh toddler tantrums are the worst. I’ve felt that way before and I prefer her honesty over those stupid over posed Easter photos. Why is she asking her stans for advice though? If there is anything I have learnt from being a mummy....no child is the same. What works for one, won’t work for another.
She talks out of her ass tho, she said on loads of stories ‘when I talk to my mummy friends....’
Now she’s saying she has none?
Well your not going to meet any when you don’t take your kid to play groups are you?
She talks out of her ass tho, she said on loads of stories ‘when I talk to my mummy friends....’
Now she’s saying she has none?
Well your not going to meet any when you don’t take your kid to play groups are you?
I have to say, I really felt terrible that she's having such a hard time. Watching her meltdown was difficult, especially because her whole accent is "I'm not the favourite one". That's got to be really hard, especially because she has turned mummyhood into a performance sport. She wants to "win" at it, rather than just roll with the punches. Her perfectionism is killing her already. Even just the last few meltdowns (I'm 100% sure there are more that don't get documented -- thank god!) she's spoken about seem to be coming from the same place -- not being able to control situations and outcomes, wanting to be perfect.
She needs to wake the duck up before she has a complete breakdown.
BUT, that said. I really also can no longer just give her the benefit of the doubt and I find myself being sitngy with my empathy because she is notorious for throwing these emotional vlogs at her audience right when she is getting a whole lot of flak, or when things are going up in smoke at work. Both of which are happening right now.
There's a lot of very basic things she can do to help herself. Day care will help both her and Focks catch a break, it will give him some much needed company of humans his age, and her time to have a life outside of being a mum and running these businesses. She can actually tune down her hustle and make time to take him to classes and socialise him a bit, and use that as a way to meet other women her age with children. She sounds SO lonely. She can just chill the duck out and stop trying to have it all and be perfect at everything. It is humanly not possible and her need for validation is so ridiculous, its dangerous.
I'm a therapist in training, and ealry childhood is one of my core areas and its very, very clear to me that what Focks is going through is more than just a 2-year regression. I see severe attachment/abandonment issues. And no, being a stay at home mum is not the answer. It's not about the quantity of time you're around, but the quality of time that you're actually around securing his sense of safety. It's probably better if she can ease him into some healthy, safe boundaried spaces where they do separate things, and then be fully present when she is aorund him.
She'd do well to notice why Kurt is the favourite. Kids aren't random like that. Maybe he makes him feel more secure. I would even go so far as to say the speech delays are a result of these issues.
She's got to get over herself and stop looking at Focks as content or this exceptionally special child that she can hold up like a bleeping trophy. Being a mum isn't a sport. She makes this so hard for herself. It's heartbreaking but frustrating to watch.
Also. I can no longer tell if her lips do this because of the filler, or vice versa. That cocked up side is also where the filler seems to be spilling out. UGH, what a mess. And there's a bunch of nutso's in her comments telling her these look so nAcHUraL
She needs to wake the duck up before she has a complete breakdown.
BUT, that said. I really also can no longer just give her the benefit of the doubt and I find myself being sitngy with my empathy because she is notorious for throwing these emotional vlogs at her audience right when she is getting a whole lot of flak, or when things are going up in smoke at work. Both of which are happening right now.
There's a lot of very basic things she can do to help herself. Day care will help both her and Focks catch a break, it will give him some much needed company of humans his age, and her time to have a life outside of being a mum and running these businesses. She can actually tune down her hustle and make time to take him to classes and socialise him a bit, and use that as a way to meet other women her age with children. She sounds SO lonely. She can just chill the duck out and stop trying to have it all and be perfect at everything. It is humanly not possible and her need for validation is so ridiculous, its dangerous.
I'm a therapist in training, and ealry childhood is one of my core areas and its very, very clear to me that what Focks is going through is more than just a 2-year regression. I see severe attachment/abandonment issues. And no, being a stay at home mum is not the answer. It's not about the quantity of time you're around, but the quality of time that you're actually around securing his sense of safety. It's probably better if she can ease him into some healthy, safe boundaried spaces where they do separate things, and then be fully present when she is aorund him.
She'd do well to notice why Kurt is the favourite. Kids aren't random like that. Maybe he makes him feel more secure. I would even go so far as to say the speech delays are a result of these issues.
She's got to get over herself and stop looking at Focks as content or this exceptionally special child that she can hold up like a bleeping trophy. Being a mum isn't a sport. She makes this so hard for herself. It's heartbreaking but frustrating to watch.
Also. I can no longer tell if her lips do this because of the filler, or vice versa. That cocked up side is also where the filler seems to be spilling out. UGH, what a mess. And there's a bunch of nutso's in her comments telling her these look so nAcHUraL
Fox had a rash all over his belly from drinking cow milk. When?! I'd bet she would have mentioned that when it actually happened. You just never know when she is lying.
Kurt seems a nice guy and a good dad actually. Yeah sure he is influenced by Sarah in many aspects, but nobody's perfect.
Fox is adorable. Who I like a lot is her sister Em.
Kurt seems a nice guy and a good dad actually. Yeah sure he is influenced by Sarah in many aspects, but nobody's perfect.
Fox is adorable. Who I like a lot is her sister Em.
Again with the lactose intolerant narrative. For a start, if Fox is developing a rash after drinking milk he might have a milk or dairy allergy. An allergy is different to being lactose intollerant, but that doesn't fit her narrative I guess.
Also, love how she says Fox is lactose intolerant just like her and Kurt, comments that Kurt's been intolerant since birth but fails to mention her situation. Why must she keep pretending? It's not a personality trait, Sarah!
Anyway, this is why we go to doctors for tests and professional opinions from educated and trained people
Also, love how she says Fox is lactose intolerant just like her and Kurt, comments that Kurt's been intolerant since birth but fails to mention her situation. Why must she keep pretending? It's not a personality trait, Sarah!
Anyway, this is why we go to doctors for tests and professional opinions from educated and trained people
I'm thinking maybe she's talking about a third ebook to gauge interest so she can transition fitness related content into Sunee. She must know by now no one is interested in her slop recipes but could possibly get more subscribers with workouts instead. I mean aren't fitness ebooks redundant now there are so many great fitness apps? I always felt she didn't go down that route in the first place because the competition is fierce but might be the only way to salvage the Sunee sinking ship 
She is so bleeping manipulative putting her crying as the template for her new vlog on her insta. Clickbait, much?
If you only interact with your kid for the gram and shove a phone/camera/screen in his face 24/7, of course you and the kid are going to have issues. Crying about it is one thing, but filming yourself crying to put it in a vlog is another manipulation tactic to get viewers and to seem relatable. Zero sympathy for her.
If you only interact with your kid for the gram and shove a phone/camera/screen in his face 24/7, of course you and the kid are going to have issues. Crying about it is one thing, but filming yourself crying to put it in a vlog is another manipulation tactic to get viewers and to seem relatable. Zero sympathy for her.
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Just when there’s bad press about her too.... we see right through you Sez. Don’t use your child’s tantrums as a cover for having a breakdown about bad press. Can’t take the heat for your own problematic behaviour? Don’t put out false and dangerous health advice and you won’t have to. Do better.
That kid has separation anxiety, she was trying to tell herself at some point in the vlog 'Im a good mum'. I speak from experience and I can say that I had to go to therapy because my parents didnt go to therapy when they should have, so I had to deal with issues as an adult which is not ideal. This vlog really gave me the exact vibes
Maybe fox has tantrums when kurt leaves because he's mirroring exactly what sezzy does when kurt leaves
Yeah, a son doesn't like his narcissistic control freak mother too much - what a huge surprise! Sarah needs some therapy stat, but with narcissistic traits like she has, I doubt she'd be self-aware enough to actually do it.
This!! I can't feel sorry for Sarah, both my parents are textbook narcissists - it's all about "me me me" and they know how to say the right things to make you feel sorry for them, hence, so many of you appealing to her "human side" and feeling sorry for her. That breakdown was a classic case of Sarah looking for her narcissistic supply as she can't get it from Fox.
I feel like if it wasn't about getting attention from her followers she would have dealt with the issue privately but with Kurt.
She constantly needs to be the center of attention, she can't even realize that her son may be having tantrums because there's a communication barrier between them and that Fox is struggling to articulate how he feels. If she wasn't such a narc she would get him vaccinated so he can be around other kids and actually develop but it's all about her!
Why ???
So she can give Jess an eating disorder with her warped way of eating and exercising ?? Plus sarah is far too busy being a mummy !!!
So she can give Jess an eating disorder with her warped way of eating and exercising ?? Plus sarah is far too busy being a mummy !!!
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