Sarah Everard

[grace28]

Just reading online, it suggests he flashed to female staff as they were cleaning up but didn’t enter the restaurant, but the incident was caught in CCTV.

I won’t say to much as i know it’s caused friction on another site I think some of us use, but there are lots of other aspects to the case i fear this might be the start of something bigger. It wouldn’t surprise me if he is responsible for other sexual assaults over the last few years and more women will come forward :-(

 

[Raininvain]

‘Remains’ to me implies a body that’s been there for a long time in a state of decomposition , otherwise they’d have just said ‘found a body’ surely? Maybe not, but just my first thought.

No, it can be remains from a recently destroyed body as well, like burned or chopped to bits.

 

[Merpedy]

Someone has said to me they are 100% sure those head injuries weren't self-inflicted if you catch my drift.

Tbh I remember one of the Epstein things was that people who do this horrible stuff often get neglected for checks even if they're on suicide watch or something because they're horrible. Their overall 'value' to a case or something doesn't actually matter because resources are stretched thin.
I doubt they have him with someone else in a cell, but also I don't think they would jeopardise a case

 

[Hereforthegigs]

I find this so sad.... for you


So many women saying they were grape. It’s a common thing

Yes it was very very traumatic, I've always had men being inappropriate , every male manager has made me feel uncomfortable, whistles walking by, married men thinking they can try things with me. I have gotten used to it, how sad is that? Maybe if they knew I was grape etc they would think twice. I hate being a woman sometimes. I have two beautiful little boys who I will do whatever I can to shape into decent and respectful young men x

 

[Pagger]

‘Remains’ to me implies a body that’s been there for a long time in a state of decomposition , otherwise they’d have just said ‘found a body’ surely? Maybe not, but just my first thought.

They could also be remains for other reasons though I guess.. burned, dismembered etc

 

[Merpedy]

Yes it was very very traumatic, I've always had men being inappropriate , every male manager has made me feel uncomfortable, whistles walking by, married men thinking they can try things with me. I have gotten used to it, how sad is that? Maybe if they knew I was grape etc they would think twice. I hate being a woman sometimes. I have two beautiful little boys who I will so whatever I can take shape into decent and respectful young men x

I just walked the dogs round the neighbourhood and some guys nearby tried to get my attention through a window, I tried not to pay attention or look at them because I figured it's not worth it, but I very much doubt they'd do it to another guy

 

[Gembo]

Believe me this stuff happens there was a guy lived beside me he was exposing himself inside the bookies ,in the playpark ( broad daylight )you name it ,once they get the urge and the thrill they can't stop he used to knock out the front window to the schoolgirls passing and perform sex acts on himself there's some disturbed individuals about ..if this guy has resorted to murder you can be sure exposure is trivial to him.

I don’t want to go into too many details in case any of the people involved could be on tattle but someone that we knew exposed himself to my mum. He was sat in his car on our driveway, we knew him, and my mum went out to talk to him. She cried for days and it was a while before I found out why she was so upset, I just couldn’t figure it out. This same man is now in prison for grape and sexual assault.

 

[Renata]

Yes it was very very traumatic, I've always had men being inappropriate , every male manager has made me feel uncomfortable, whistles walking by, married men thinking they can try things with me. I have gotten used to it, how sad is that? Maybe if they knew I was grape etc they would think twice. I hate being a woman sometimes. I have two beautiful little boys who I will do whatever I can to shape into decent and respectful young men x

I’m glad you moved on from it. Xx

 

[Clojo92]

Perhaps if they had taken the flashing incident more seriously and promptly, this would never of happened. Such a sad and awful thing to think about.

 

[thegirlscout]

Just reading online, it suggests he flashed to female staff as they were cleaning up but didn’t enter the restaurant, but the incident was caught in CCTV.

I won’t say to much as i know it’s caused friction on another site I think some of us use, but there are lots of other aspects to the case i fear this might be the start of something bigger. It wouldn’t surprise me if he is responsible for other sexual assaults over the last few years and more women will come forward :-(

What other aspects?

 

[Awhenny]

Honestly this was my first thought, surprised nobody else has mentioned it!

Yeah, rightly or wrongly, my first thought was that the police on duty were "heavy handed". May be influenced by too many tv dramas but would not be surprised.

 

[Reverend]

It really annoys me when I hear men saying that 60's,70's 80's etc. that it was the norm to grope women, make sexist comments, and generally demean women that their bra size was more important than their IQ. My dad never did any of that, and he bought me up to respect individuals, no matter what colour, sex, sexual preference etc.

 

[BigMavis]

Well, I mean its what most of us thought. Head injuries isn't a common way to self harm but he would have had no other avenue available to him so I can see how he did it and why.

 

[NapQueenReturns]

They could also be remains for other reasons though I guess.. burned, dismembered etc

Jesus Christ, I hope not. That would be even more horrific than it already is.

 

[Clojo92]

I feel like people who hold positions of power and abuse them should have tougher sentences.

 

[lalalanded]

Honestly this was my first thought, surprised nobody else has mentioned it!

Tbh I hadn't even considered it until someone mentioned it to me. But yeah..... considering it was all back to business as usual quite quickly it really would not surprise me at all.

 

[Lola123]

Well, I mean its what most of us thought. Head injuries isn't a common way to self harm but he would have had no other avenue available to him so I can see how he did it and why.

Like Jeffery Epstein, covering up that someone else attacked him

 

[rlouisep9]

They could also be remains for other reasons though I guess.. burned, dismembered etc

Sadly that was my first thought as soon as they said 'remains', like he had definitely tried to dispose of the body somehow

 

[MyLittlePony25]

Yes you can cause serious self harm from head banging, speaking from previous experience. I would think police wouldn’t want to jeopardise the investigation

 

[Renegadedancer]

‘Remains’ to me implies a body that’s been there for a long time in a state of decomposition , otherwise they’d have just said ‘found a body’ surely? Maybe not, but just my first thought.

Unless it’s not a complete body.