Flew back into Dublin this morning after a whirlwind week of donor/IVF talk. Firstly a surrogate is a selfless woman anyway but our lady couldn’t have been more selfLESS when you compare to Sarah. Don’t get me wrong for many it’s a financial exchange, they get money and we get a baby. This surrogate has done this before which gives us comfort for her mental health knowing what lies ahead for her. But she never moaned about any part of the upcoming processes or contact requirements from us etc and it’s our baby not hers, she made me feel like a whole woman and mother for the first time in a long time.
Sarah is trying to have a baby to keep/trap Keith & for the insta & social welfare perks and it shows. Not one part of her is maternal or loving. The more I go through this process the more Sarah’s account is like a parody IVF account. Our surrogate (once pregnant ) is willing to set up an insta account just to track the surrogacy and pregnancy with and for us. It won’t be a public begging for freebies account but any tattlers with an interest will be welcome to follow our silent but respectful journey.
Bed rest for 10 days and then €1 pints for 10 days in Lanzarote
Sarah is trying to have a baby to keep/trap Keith & for the insta & social welfare perks and it shows. Not one part of her is maternal or loving. The more I go through this process the more Sarah’s account is like a parody IVF account. Our surrogate (once pregnant ) is willing to set up an insta account just to track the surrogacy and pregnancy with and for us. It won’t be a public begging for freebies account but any tattlers with an interest will be welcome to follow our silent but respectful journey.
Bed rest for 10 days and then €1 pints for 10 days in Lanzarote